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| Author: | IMan6 [ Mon Jun 08, 2015 10:24 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Went from too hot to too cold? |
Hello guys, I would appreciate some insight in regards to this day 2. I went clubbing as usual and met a girl, as I normally would by approaching naturally. Turns out she not only recognized me but she was the hot sister of one of my sister's friends. Naturally, she showed high interest and we danced for a while, got her number and arranged a possible date, which she was excited about. As the week went by, I texted her and she would answer super fast and always with a smile, which I recognized as her showing interest, since I was very direct and a bit less humorous than usual, she was interested and I made my intent clear that we were going to go out, which she followed though on a Thursday. The date went fine, we got to talk for 3 hours and then we went dancing, where we met her friends and some of my friends who were already in the club, we danced together and had a great time, I kinod' fine, so I saw she was comfortable and responsive to me touching her as I would any other girl. As I mentioned a possible date to dance the next day, since I was gonna go anyway, she agreed and said she would tag along. I told her I would message her the next day, which I did and she took a little longer to answer, this time she only said that she had a presentation for next Monday, and thanked me. I proceeded to let her know it was fine, then asked her if we should make up for it sometime this week. Got no reply, and I told her I understood, that it would be great if we hanged along again because I liked her attitude but it was also fine if we didn't, again no reply. Players, my question is: Why the sudden lack of the initial excessive interest if I clearly saw her having fun throughout the first date, she even told me she had a blast, she even came with me clubbing knowing she had to work the next day. So why the sudden resistance to go out if she had something to do on Monday and the invitation was for friday? I have not sent anything since then, any advise would be appreciated. |
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| Author: | JackZero [ Mon Jun 08, 2015 10:32 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Went from too hot to too cold? |
Quote: The date went fine, we got to talk for 3 hours and then we went dancing, where we met her friends and some of my friends who were already in the club, we danced together and had a great time, I kinod' fine, so I saw she was comfortable and responsive to me touching her as I would any other girl. If this is the extent of your date...this is your problem. When a woman is showing that much interest, your best option is to keep escalating. She may stop you at some point but that's okay. What you did is not leave her with anything to look forward to in order to keep her mind stimulated to make her want to see you again.
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| Author: | IMan6 [ Mon Jun 08, 2015 10:36 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Went from too hot to too cold? |
Very insightful, I'll be more aggressive in the next date, as I already have another date with a diff hot girl aligned for this weekend. But is this situation salvageable or did I kill it? |
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| Author: | JackZero [ Mon Jun 08, 2015 10:39 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Went from too hot to too cold? |
This is one of those "if it were me" situations when it comes to an answer. I would not call or text this girl again. She ignored you, so salvaging anything should come from her. |
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| Author: | HugoMoreno [ Thu Jul 16, 2015 7:28 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Went from too hot to too cold? |
It probably has nothing to do with you because you haven't done anything to trigger negative responses |
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| Author: | masterm1ne [ Thu Jul 16, 2015 9:17 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Went from too hot to too cold? |
Yea man ... let her marinate. I have found it's NORMAL to go long periods without ANY contact for attractive girls. All healthy relationships require distance... Just like the stars in the rest of the cosmos. |
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