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Author:  Hedonistic [ Sun Jan 04, 2015 2:55 pm ]
Post subject:  Advice on how I could have blasted through this LMR?
I met HB 7.5 at this club and pretty much make out with her instantly on the dance floor.
I myself was pretty drunk so I don't remember the details but it got pretty intense and I fingered her while she unbuttoned my shirt and touch my body all over. I think she might have been pretty drunk too.Eventually her friend pulled her away but I got her number in the end.

We messaged each other back and forth over the next few weeks and arranged another meeting. Turns out that she just broke up with her ex of 4 years. The following week we went out on a movie date before hitting the club again. Both of us drank very little this time round but make out again at the dance floor sober.

I sent her home on a cab and she initiated the make out this time round and things got pretty heated in a short amount of time. She started to unbutton my shirt once again and sucked on my chest and gave me a handjob while I fingered her and fondled with her boobs. I popped the question of finding a room and spending the night together. she was kinda in a daze because she was turned on but after a few moments of silence said "not tonight". I took her word for word and stopped pushing right there.

Was there anything I could have done to escalate rapidly and bang her that same night? I really could use some help to improve on my late game at closing etc - because I am pretty weak at that last stage.
Author:  Dragula [ Sun Jan 04, 2015 5:13 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Advice on how I could have blasted through this LMR?
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because she was turned on but after a few moments of silence said "not tonight". I took her word for word and stopped pushing right there.
That's your problem. You gave up too easily.

Next time, tell her 'of course, let's just hang out' and just persist. more often than not, girls will always give token resistance - It is your job to lead/persist it to the bedroom .

Also, fingering girls on dance floors tend to lead to instant buyers remorse. You still managed to get a date out of her which means you have already screened her as 'down to fuck' and she was ready to bang you for sure.

Basically,

Fingering her then saying 'want to come back to a watch a movie with me?' = causes resistance

Not fingering her and keeping the tension ' 'want to come back to a watch a movie with me?' = hardly no resistance

Think about it
Author:  Hedonistic [ Mon Jan 05, 2015 7:04 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Advice on how I could have blasted through this LMR?
Hey PEBBLE thanks for the reply!

I agree with what you said.

In other words, it would have been simpler to stop at the making out stage?
Access her response and maybe try to push for her to come to my place again? Any good material out there to read specifically on how to get a girl over?
Author:  Dragula [ Mon Jan 05, 2015 7:32 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Advice on how I could have blasted through this LMR?
She was still into you after day 1

I think you missed a massive IOI and didn't push it hard enough.

I forgot where to look these regarding material
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