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Author:  mark317 [ Thu Jun 26, 2014 4:52 am ]
Post subject:  My hot chick officemate hold my forearm...???

My hot chick officemate hold my forearm when we are in the photocopier room and there are other people there.

My question at the end. For the mean time, here are the levels of kino for your reference:


Light kino


Greeting – When you are introduced to a girl that is a good opportunity to start breaking down the physical barrier. Rather than going for a regular handshake, introduce yourself in a way that immediately sets you apart and makes her remember you. For example, by giving her the rock or some other special greeting that you have made up.

Accidental arm touch – While talking to her you can lightly brush against her arm.

Emphasis – You can touch her arm with the back of your hand to emphasize a point in the conversation.

Shoulder touch – Briefly touch her shoulder while speaking, as if pulling her in to hear you better.

Poking – Lightly tap her arm or shoulder to reclaim her attention if it temporarily wanders.

Patting – When the girl says something even remotely uncool, you can pat her on the shoulder and shake your head.

Palm reading – Put out your hand with the palm up and tell the girl to give you her hand. When she gives it, study her palm intently and gently trace the lines in her palm with your finger. Then, give her a look as if you now have her figured out and let go of her hand. When she asks what you saw, make something up that leads the interaction forward.

Short handholding – Another cold reading routine you can use when you have her hand is to place two fingers on her wrist, as if checking her pulse. Then say, “Just as I thought, you’re attracted to me. The heart never lies.” as you give her hand back.

Thumb-wrestling – This is a great game to use when challenging the girl to do something. You always want to win.

High five – Can be used for instance to highlight a commonality you share.

Mid kino


Tickling – Start tickling her and get into a tickle fight. Any physical play like this is great for building comfort.

Arm-in-arming – As you are walking you can lock arm in arm with her to escort her.

Hugging – Can be used for instance to reward her when she has done something good.

Hand on her leg – Put your hand on her knee. Then, when she expects that is all you will do you squeeze her knee, going from sensual to playful in an instant.

Hand on your leg – Take her hand and place it on your leg.

Dancing – If you have a dance floor you can take advantage of that to get some serious kino going. Ask her, “You know how to dance?” When she says <Yes!> say “Let’s go” as you take her hand and lead her to the dance floor.

Hand play – Let your fingers play with her hand. Keep in mind that as with most kino escalation this is just subtext. Your conversation should not reflect what you are doing.

Soft touch – Run your fingertips slowly over the backside of her hand, her inner arm or neck. This touch can feel really good.

Caressing back – Put your hand on her back and start caressing her. Then, when she expects you to be sensual you go back to being playful by tickling her or snapping her bra.

Stomach touch – While you talk about fitness you can give her a compliment on her flat stomach as you slide your hand over it. When you do this you can get a sense for whether she would be comfortable with a longer touch around that area, such as having your hand around her waist.


Heavy kino


Hair play – Run your hand through her hair or twirl it around while looking into her eyes. To see if she would be comfortable with you touching her hair, you can lead up to it by for instance brushing a stray hair out of her face.

Hair pull – Reach behind her neck and gently pull a fistful of her hair downwards. It feels really good.

Smelling – In the middle of a conversation you can reach over and smell her neck. Say “Mmm, you smell so… good” and then continue on with the conversation.

Biting – Pull her close and say “I want to bite you”. Then give her a little bite on the neck.

Sit on lap – Take her hand and move it above her head so that she spins around. Then, when her back is towards you, sit her down on your lap and hug her from behind.

Arm around shoulder – Slide your hand along her shoulder and let it rest there in a 90-degree angle. It is protective and shows a strong masculine presence.

Massage – Tell her you give a mean shoulder massage and let her have one.

Kissing with release – There are many good techniques for kissing a girl. One would be to put on some flavored chapstick and say, “You know what the best part about chapstick is? Here, smell it”. Let her smell it and then continue, “It not only smells like strawberries, it actually tastes like strawberries too. Check it out”. And then you go in and kiss her.

French kissing – This is the borderline between heavy kino and foreplay kino. It is a good idea to kiss the girl normally before you start making out with her.

QUESTION: When she did that, what level of kino has been unlocked?

Author:  Monsignor Crisanto [ Fri Jun 27, 2014 12:09 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: My hot chick officemate hold my forearm...???

The next time she holds your forearm, hold her hand and look her in the eye.

When a girl touches you (depending on which body part), it simply means you can touch her back at a more erotic body part of hers. NO. Don't mash her breast or grab her ass in public. Escalate gradually and properly. If you reciprocated her touch at her forearm too, then you're NOT escalating. You're simply mirroring.

Be dominant in your kino and when she shows signs of compliance and submission then you're good.

Author:  NaughtyNapoleon [ Sun Jun 29, 2014 11:18 am ]
Post subject:  Re: My hot chick officemate hold my forearm...???

It's a clear signal that she wants you! Hellbound
I had been this situation before, a hot chick at my lab hold my forearm while we doing experiments in our lab.

I don't know what it was back to that time, but I did hold her hand and ask her out that night.

Guess what?! WE end up having fun at my room.

So I do suggest you go ask her now or ASAP!

Just give her an excuse that's a new open or interesting cafe / bar near your place and you want some pretty girls to accompany you to there. She will love to do so, trust me.

Get to know more about her dream, motivation, childhood story...anything personal to her.

And from there, give her a reason to go back to your place and I guess you know what to do afterward.

Good luck & move faster!


Signing out,
Naughty NApoleon

Author:  mark317 [ Mon Jun 30, 2014 4:39 am ]
Post subject:  Re: My hot chick officemate hold my forearm...???

Thanks for your reply and advices. I just want to add that this chick after holding may arm for few seconds told me that she has hotter and prettier officemate that she will introduce to me. I'm kinda confuse because why she would say those things if she likes me? :P

Author:  Monsignor Crisanto [ Mon Jun 30, 2014 1:45 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: My hot chick officemate hold my forearm...???

She wants to gauge your interest in her. She also wants you to say to her that she's the hottest for you (Don't EVER say this).

Let your actions do the talking: Hold her hand. Look her in the eye. Ask her out.

Author:  mark317 [ Wed Jul 02, 2014 4:00 am ]
Post subject:  Re: My hot chick officemate hold my forearm...???

Bad news. I got her number last week (which is good news), then I called her yesterday (6 days after i got her number) and she didn't answer. I called again after 2 hrs that night, no answer. Then I texted her to tell my name. No reply.

Then this morning, when she saw me, she smiled and apologized because she was not able to catched my call. I just said okay (with half-smile only).

I know I know, maybe it's my mistake not to ask her out last week when she held my arm. Or the moment I got her number. So tell me, should I still ask her out in person? Or wait a week? Or just let her go?

Thanks!

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