Hi,
i'll try to keep it short
Approached the girl in a club, got the number close.. well actually she didn't want to give her number but took mine and tried to call me with hidden number right away because she didn't believe it was my number. I just told her "I'll be naive and believe that you will call".
She called the next day and the day after. I setup a date. We also exchanged FB.
1st Date:
I picked her up, we want to a bar and just get to know each other. I suggested we change the venue since a buddy of mine was playing live at another bar. First she hesitated then went for it. We arrived at the bar, but it was full so i just kept going. Actually driving, we've been in my car and i have been driving around, trying to get her back at my place. "So we could chill". Since she didn't want to after me trying a couple of times. I called it a day and drove her home.
She texted the same night, that she felt good around me and it never happend before.
Next day she wanted to meet up, but i was already busy, since i have been invited over to some friends.
We wrote some text back and forth and she stopped replying to my text, then i asked her on FB since she was online if she received my text. Then she gave me some story about her EX, that he isn't over her and bs like that. I just told her "to not make such a drama out of it and that she should give me a call, when she fells like it".
Next day she called, i tried to organize a date and we met.
2nd Date:
The second date was back at my place.. We had fun enjoyed the night and i went in for the KC.. She blocked and turned away.. I was teasing her and found it kinda cute.. and let go for a few and tried again. Blocked again.. Alright so i leaned back, smiling. She asked why i smiled, i just kept smiling ingored what she said and took my phone and was texting for few. Then went back to her, touching a little, teasing and went again for the KC.. again blocked.. and now she wanted to go.. alright i said to myself, i'll get it the next time..
So i drove her home and when i get back home i already got a text, if i arrived at home, etc.
Next day i received some text messages, with "babe" and stuff like that.. I tried to organize a date through the week but she kept catching for excuses and even started ignoring my message. So i stopped texting.
Few days passed.. It was new year and i was out with buddies having fun. She texted me to come at a club (i was aiming to go there but not at that moment). I told her i was with my friends and i'll see if i get there. She kept texting me and after a few text said she was drunk.. Since my friends already wanted to go to the club i wrote her that i'm on my way..
So we arrived there she was already waiting for me, she hugged me and was happy that i'm there. I invited her group to join my group and chatted with friends and people around. Then i approached a set of girls and talked a little and could see her looking at me over the bar. I finished with the set and returned to my group, she came to me getting closer, i went in for the KC, she blocked. I have been already drinking quite a bit, so that was obvious, but i can still behave. I went in again for the KC, again blocked, she said you are drunk. I said "that doesnt matter".
Then night went on and everybody was starting to leave. So i left the club with her and her girlfriends. I told her we are goin back at my place. She said she is gonna grab her stuff and come. Then went into a cab with her friends..
She started texting, that her girlfriends are over protective and want her to go home.. We texted back and forth and she told me to pick her up, since she didn't want to come by herself. I took a cab and went to pick her up and we get back at my place.. Since i have been drinking like mentioned before. we just went straight for sleep. She cuddled and spooned the whole night.
Next morning, i started to touch her, get under her clothes, she enjoyed it and started moaning, then she turned away. I kept doing it and she turned away again. Then she wanted to go home, since she had to "clean" her place. I just said there is time for that and backed off a little. But still touching her.. She kept enjoying and then again she said she had to leave.. well alright then, i brought her home..
Same day she called, we talked a little and that was it for the day.. next day we texted a little and the day after i wrote her a text, to check what she was up to.. No reply for 7 days.. then over FB she wrote me a Happy bday message and said sorry for congratulating so late.. Since my Bday was a couple days before.
Since it took her a week to even reply, not even to my message, just a generic Happy Bday, i found it disrepectful and wrote her "Hey sweetie, thanks for the happy birthday, im getting kinda old
I have to admit that i like you. But i really dont have the time or energy for you.. I think that you do not know what you want and i'm asking you to contact my when you know what you want. I send you a big kiss and wish you the best."few minutes later i get an "ok" reply.
So thats the story, sorry it was getting a bit longer then expected. I'd like to hear some opinions on the matter. I believe i was doing the right thing, yet i would have really liked to have atleast layed the woman as she was my type of girl.