You are being too hard on her. You have to understand a major difference between men and women.
Men have a logical "ladder' of attraction that they climb. The more intimacy happens, the closer the get to the point of wanting to fuck her. The ladder is linear, straight and short.
Women do not have a ladder like this. She probably started rationalizing later at home. Thinking : "oh my God, I acted like a slut, what will my friends think of me:" and 10 minutes later "what if he thinks I'm just a slut" and 10 minutes later: "OMG, what if he just wants to fuck, and I liked him". 10 minutes later: "well if he just wants to fuck, I don't like him anymore, I am going to hate him.
Another 10 minutes later you text, and she gives you cold responses. Well I will guarantee you one thing: You will get used to this in womens behavior. The worst thing you can do is show that it gets to you. So never get angry, or delete her as a friend from facebook or stuff like that. I did this in my early days. I would meet the women later in the bar, they would be very friendly, but friend zone me, because they thought I was being to sensitive.
So just stay calm, act as if she never bitched to you, freeze her out for a couple of days. And just text her as if nothing ever happened. Also, don't ask her for sexual favors like you did on the snapchat, in this stage it will only make matters worse.
Just give semi-intersted texts, kind of casual and fun, more about you then about her or "us". And you can turn this thing around.
Besides. You need the practice, cause most women will do this. I even had a girlfriend, who would be different every other week. In the week of her period, she would be a monster, and I had to just give her space and swallow her bad behavior. The week after it was payback time, she would cry and apologize and give me make up sex. The week after she would ovulate and be superhorny and happy. The week after was normal, and then the bad week started again. She was very aware of this, and even explained to me how to deal with it. It was great to know and ever since that lesson I started paying attention the menstruation cycle of my girlfriends, and it made my game better.
Another example. I meet this girl through a friend of mine. I take her home twice and we kind of bond "as friends" on an emotional level talking about our past relationships. No close whatsoever. Maybe a little bit of attraction. A few months later, I meet her, I get major IOI's she keeps coming on to me. I was in a relationship and do not respond to the IOI's. I sometimes even kind of ignore her, to make sure she stops giving me IOI's.
So what happens a few months later: I meet her again. And she is cold, does not want to talk, tries to avoid me in the bar. So a 180 degree turn. But like I explained to you. I ignored her right back, just gave her a casual hello. Now I will just wait for a next chance, I will meet her again and her mood might have improved, and at least I didn't do or say something about her behavior, which would have made me look like a guy that cant handle a girls delicate and more chaotic emotional nature. Also I never showed any romantic interest, which might cause her to react more strongly around me, just to get my attention, or just to see how strongly I will react to her.
Conclussion: Asking negative attention CAN be an IOI... and does not mean you are finished gaming her. It only means you should adapt your strategy and pace.
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