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| Author: | wafflez2105 [ Tue Dec 03, 2013 2:01 pm ] |
| Post subject: | inviting a girl on a date |
We've been seeing each other every week now on the way to work with matuals friend tor a month now and I added her on facebook two days ago and we've talked a little. I want to ask her on a date but I'm afraid that if it wouldn't work and it would be just awkward. Now I want to ask for her number and just directly tell her. What do you think I should do? |
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| Author: | afcAL [ Wed Dec 04, 2013 6:21 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: inviting a girl on a date |
There are a lot of variables here. What did you talk about? Was there attraction? Sexual tension? Does she see you as a friend? Co-worker? Is she comfortable with you enough to isolate? Is here kino? IOI's? Find out where you are and your approach should become pretty clear. Al |
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| Author: | wafflez2105 [ Wed Dec 04, 2013 6:39 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: inviting a girl on a date |
Well we have much in common like taste in music, the same twisted humor, and we're talking about stuff pretty freely including sexual stuff sometimes and the thing is I think she's a virgin |
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| Author: | afcAL [ Wed Dec 04, 2013 10:26 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: inviting a girl on a date |
Quote: Well we have much in common like taste in music, the same twisted humor, and we're talking about stuff pretty freely including sexual stuff sometimes and the thing is I think she's a virgin
Genetically, people have less than .1% variation among them. You have a lot more in common than you think.What you need to do is find out where you are. Sounds like you are heading for the friend zone, but not all is lost. Getting more physical and playful should stir you in the right direction. Al |
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| Author: | wafflez2105 [ Thu Dec 05, 2013 6:41 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: inviting a girl on a date |
Saw her today again but this time it was just the two of us. I was going to do exactly what you said. We talked a little, and when I was going to start being more touchy and playfull and flirty she told me she had a boyfriend and that she want to break up with him cuz he's boring and they're not going out. She told me they were in the friendzone and he suggested being a couple half a year ago. After she told me that I continued being the funny guy but I weren't flirty or touchy or something. |
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| Author: | afcAL [ Fri Dec 06, 2013 6:22 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: inviting a girl on a date |
That was your window of opportunity. She wants to be with fun and outrageous guy - like you. Get flirty. Get touchy. You are more than that boring "boy friend" she got. What you got to lose? Putting your balls on the shelf right now is pretty much giving her away to a guy who is willing to do what you are not. Al |
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| Author: | wafflez2105 [ Fri Dec 06, 2013 9:51 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: inviting a girl on a date |
Well I was waiting until she will break up with him if its gonna happen eventually cuz I don't act like a douche.. I don't have any problem being flirty and touchy but I don't want to take it too far for now.. |
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| Author: | In$tinct [ Fri Dec 06, 2013 12:58 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: inviting a girl on a date |
You don't seem to get it. The girl is waiting for you to give her a damn reason to end her miserable relationship. How is this acting a douche? You're just making her happier, and her sorry ass of a boyfriend should learn how to make her girl happy. It's not your fault that he's incapable of that. Just make your move, and when things get hot, grab your balls and stop her. Explain to her that you don't want to be the guy with whom she cheats on her boyfriend, so she should first break up before you two move on. It will give her a valid reason to do so, she won't feel so guilty, you won't feel so guilty, you are now a leader with superior emotional intellect in her eyes, it's just a golden opportunity. Don't miss it. |
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| Author: | wafflez2105 [ Fri Dec 06, 2013 1:06 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: inviting a girl on a date |
Well that's sound pretty logical, thnx |
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| Author: | BrandonMarshall [ Sun Dec 08, 2013 4:12 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: inviting a girl on a date |
get her number and ask her out... just do it. Better to take action then to ask yourself "what if". |
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| Author: | wafflez2105 [ Mon Dec 09, 2013 9:57 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: inviting a girl on a date |
Well I talked to her for two hours on Facebook, I laughed about going to Vegas with her getting married and adopting a kid named pablo and then all of the sudden she told me she have commitment problem and after like 2 minutes went to sleep.. now I'm thinking its a shit test and just ignoring it in the future and if she'll say that again ill tell her something like she should make an exclusion or something.. What do you say? |
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| Author: | gelberto [ Wed Dec 11, 2013 8:36 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: inviting a girl on a date |
Silently watching her, like her commuting time, place, and then pretending to encounter, manufacturing topics and opportunities! ! Good luck to you. |
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