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A HB hit me up after months to hangout, She has a boyfriend
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Author:  LayWind [ Thu Sep 19, 2013 4:24 am ]
Post subject:  A HB hit me up after months to hangout, She has a boyfriend
I have a friend. She is an absolute 10. On top of the good looks shes also a blast. Up until 6 months we were very close. We were going out all the time. There was never a dull moment. We were extremely sexual towards each other but we never hooked up. There were a few times where we would have but I pulled back. At the time i was dating other girls and my friendship with this girl was more of just friends. Because 6 months ago she found a boyfriend. (I suspect because she because i didn't act.) Since then we have texted maybe 3 times and she came over with a friend once.

Now where i need:
A few days ago she started texting. She hinted at meeting up. I invited her to grab some coffee. I hadn't seen her in a few months.
During our meetup she asked about my life, and what girls i was seeing. Somewhere in the conversion she slipped in that her and her boyfriend were having problems and almost broke up but talked about fixing it. After that she went on to say a bunch of things she misses, all of which being things we would do.

To me it appears she hit be up out of the blue and wanted to meetup to test the water.

I'm not sure how to handle the whole boyfriend aspect.
Author:  Heywood Jablowme [ Thu Sep 19, 2013 1:37 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: A HB hit me up after months to hangout, She has a boyfri
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I have a friend. She is an absolute 10.
Your version of a 10. I would knock that shit down a peg or two, perfection is hard to obtain.
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We were extremely sexual towards each other but we never hooked up. (I suspect because she because i didn't act.)
I suspect because you didn't fuck her.
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Somewhere in the conversion she slipped in that her and her boyfriend were having problems and almost broke up but talked about fixing it. After that she went on to say a bunch of things she misses, all of which being things we would do.
Pretty deep in the friend zone here, she needed an emotional tampon to soak up her girly troubles. Depending how sympathetic you were to her 'needs'. Be the opposite.

Take her out, be sexual, get her drunk, escalate, be more sexual, escalate, take her home and follow through.
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I'm not sure how to handle the whole boyfriend aspect.
He is not part of the equation, he does not exist. If she brings him up, say 'You guys should get married' and dismiss her. If she says 'We shouldn't be doing this I have a bf.' or some such shit. Say I know! And proceed.
Author:  Loopster [ Thu Sep 19, 2013 8:22 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: A HB hit me up after months to hangout, She has a boyfri
Rule 1, don't be clingy. Give her 3-5 minutes before you escalate.

Rule 2, always be closing. If it gets quiet don't let it become stagnant water, make it sexual tension, and then follow it up with a smile.

Rule 3, she always wants to fuck you.
Author:  t7eopard [ Fri Sep 20, 2013 2:20 am ]
Post subject:  Re: A HB hit me up after months to hangout, She has a boyfri
I feel this is all just part of the game you two are playing thus have no comment. Look at your post like you are someone else. Come on man. You know the answer!
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