Hey guys,

So first off, I know this is a bad start, but I'm not too big into texting. I enjoy seeing people in real life but I find texting not very useful other than getting information.

Anyways, what is the whole "general idea" of texting girls?
I like the idea of just asking "hey, whats your plans for ____" "we should meet up" etc.
But beyond that I'm clueless and don't really bother.

But what happens in between all that?
What would you send after not seeing a girl for a week etc. if you can't meet up.

I've seen example texts on the forum before of things like "think you can handle it?" in response to whatever the scenario is, and raunchy stuff like that, but that really isn't me. I understand theres a time for stuff like that though. But I don't really know how to get there.

I also feel like it's suicide just being like, "hey, hows your day". Cause if you don't see each other much in between it kind of kills the vibe and gets really small-talky.

What do I doo exactly, I don't need step by step guides, but a jist of what you're going for (when NOT just asking to meet up) would be helpful.

Thanks guys