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Author:  Amazed [ Sun May 26, 2013 7:17 pm ]
Post subject:  One night stand to an f'buddy

Hey guys so i fucked an HB8 last week. We have known each other for a few weeks so there was some rapport built already. Sex was great for both of us, she came 3 times so my performance was up to snuff. The day after she made me breakfast and dinner but did not act clingy at all because i wanted her to stay and chill.

My issue is that since we fucked and hung out she has kind of been distant. I saw her 2 nights ago at the club and paid her minimal attention because after our first convo she seemed distant. So what my question is how do i transition this into a fuck buddy scenario. She seems chill and i probably wouldn't date her but the sex was phenomenal and i want to lock this down as a 'friend with benefits'.

Author:  TheFury [ Tue May 28, 2013 6:04 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: One night stand to an f'buddy

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Hey guys so i fucked an HB8 last week. We have known each other for a few weeks so there was some rapport built already. Sex was great for both of us, she came 3 times so my performance was up to snuff. The day after she made me breakfast and dinner but did not act clingy at all because i wanted her to stay and chill.

My issue is that since we fucked and hung out she has kind of been distant. I saw her 2 nights ago at the club and paid her minimal attention because after our first convo she seemed distant. So what my question is how do i transition this into a fuck buddy scenario. She seems chill and i probably wouldn't date her but the sex was phenomenal and i want to lock this down as a 'friend with benefits'.
Interesting that she seemed distant. I've usually found the opposite is the traditional problem and that turning a girl into an f-buddy is quite easy. Just play it cool like you are doing. There's no guarantee, but it is the right approach. The whole breakfast and dinner the next day is not congruent with setting up an f-buddy though; so could be, she may have interpreted that as you wanting much more.

Author:  SuperNotBeta [ Thu May 30, 2013 1:36 am ]
Post subject:  Re: One night stand to an f'buddy

Like the gentlemen above me stated, your follow up actions aren't congruent with your intentions. Also I'd like to note that "distance" and "awkwardness" are self-fulfilling prophecies, you just need to think it will happen and it will literally happen.

To move this to a fuck buddy scenario like I did, you're going to have to call her and ask her to hang out. From there, all you need to do is your kino routine for safety, and you're on your way.

Afterwards, no more routines are needed. The rest is just maintaining your attitude, and keeping your thoughts aligned with your words and actions.

It's all natural game after the second fuck. Good luck.

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