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Author:  Asfalten [ Sun Apr 28, 2013 12:47 pm ]
Post subject:  Stood up / forgot / badly planned

Hey guys..

I met this girl 3 weeks ago and she spent the night, without anything 'happening' though.

Since then, I have wanted to meet up with her again, but something has always come in the way.

But this thursday, my college had this HUGE event, from 12 to 17.

I talked to her about it, and she had to work till 17, so she couldnt join before late evening. But we agreed that she would give me a call when she was on her way.

Alright, so the day came. I went with some friends to the event, and went to a nearby college-bar till 19:30 afterwards.

At that time we were ready to go to downtown to some real bars or clubs. She hadnt called yet, so I called her and told her where I was going.

An hour later(20:30), i texted her and told her we moved on to another bar. She replied that she had plans with some friends downtown, but didnt know where yet.

An hour later again(21:30), I called her and she told me she was still at college with some friends. I told her we were moving to a new bar yet again, she asked me to write to her when we got there, but I said we would be there within 15 minutes.

After that I thought, "F*ck it. I doubt she is comming downtown. I should have stayed at college!".

I didnt hear from her anymore that night. sh1t!

Alright so two days later, on saturday around noon, I wrote to her on FB, she replied sunday morning and a few messages later, she told me that she actually went downtown to meet with some friends, but went home because she had to work the next day.

What.. The.. Actual.. F*ck.. Sh*t! ;)

My impression was that we had plans, but looking back, i didnt really.
I should have been a lot more specific, when making plans!

But what should I do from here? What would you do?

TL;DR
I was downtown, thought I had plans with a girl. She also went downtown, but didnt tell me!

Author:  Swifftt [ Sun Apr 28, 2013 8:37 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Stood up / forgot / badly planned

It seems as if you are coming off a bit needy. Instead of texting/calling everytime you switch locations let her find you. When SHE calls YOU then tell her where you are.

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