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Author:  MrSchmit [ Wed Mar 27, 2013 1:46 pm ]
Post subject:  Takes forever to text back
Hey guys,

Had a great interaction with a girl I met in a club a few days ago. Only chatted for around 5 minute but I ended up getting her number, kiss closing and agreeing to hang out sometime.
We have sent a few texts back and forth,...However, she takes absolutely ages to reply to a text. I mean like over 24 hours. If I send her a text in the evening, she won't reply to my text untill the next night.

I'd usually take this as a sign that shes obviously not interested, but the texts she does send indicate that she is actually keen (eg- asking questions, laughing, call back humour etc).

Not sure what to make of it to be honest, any of you guys had similar experiences?

I'm thinking of waiting a day or two then just straight up asking her out to be honest
Author:  Heywood Jablowme [ Wed Mar 27, 2013 2:46 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Takes forever to text back
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I'm thinking of waiting a day or two then just straight up asking her out to be honest
Don't do this just remain calm, text her at the same pace (or less) til she becomes more interested.
She hardly knows you, your just not that high on the "Priority List" yet.
Author:  MrSchmit [ Wed Mar 27, 2013 3:34 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Takes forever to text back
Cheers dude

So I shouldn't ask her out on a date just yet?
Author:  Heywood Jablowme [ Wed Mar 27, 2013 4:02 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Takes forever to text back
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Cheers dude

So I shouldn't ask her out on a date just yet?
At this point I think she would likely flake on you if you did.

You need to build more comfort, and a connection 1st.

I personally do this through picking up the phone and calling her. 90% of guys strictly text. Be the one that stands out in a great way.

Pick up the phone and call her". "Why?". "You and a billion guys are text-ing her. Be different. Pick up the phone, shoot the shit with her. Be funny, and short. Don't ask to hang out the first time either. Just call, talk, laugh together, ask how the day was. Then end it".

The level of Comfort varies depending on the chick. You'll be able to pick up on this.

Then just say after a connection or two, "hey, you do seem cool, lets grab beer on Thursday at 8. I'll pick you up".

NOT let's go on a "Date"
Author:  MrSchmit [ Wed Mar 27, 2013 4:23 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Takes forever to text back
Cheers dude, and yeah, I wasn't actually gonna say to her 'lets go on a date' haha.

Its no big deal, just I've never had a girl take so long to text before! I'll probably give her a ring sometime tomorrow and see how it plays out.
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