Well there is what you actually text her, and then there its actually what it means.
For a few of my own tried and true stuff here's some examples.
I'm good at backrubs, but I'm good at other things too.
Text speak = I've had my hands pleasure other women before, use your imagination to guess what else I can do to you.
What color thong are you wearing, and by that I mean happy Friday.
Text speak= I'm thinking of you sexually, glad its the weekend.
I won't have sex with you tonight. If want me to come over though, I'll like your pussy until you cum.
Text speak = I'm not just looking to fuck. I'm not selfish in bed either or afraid to escalate ASAP.
Would it be inappropriate if I made out with your face the minute I see you today?
Text speak= I want permission to escalate as soon as possible.
The amount you care about her has no impact
on your text game. I myself find it harder to follow the ridiculous rules required when I actually care about someone but, they still remain the same. You will be very surprised at what kind of sexual nonsense you can send to chicks and get great results.
I like the I'm on my period today. If you want sex your gonna have to wait a few days.
Text speak = I'm totally available for sex. No waiting is required just play along with me.
You could tone those texts down but, not sure why you want to. Being alpha and sexual is a turn on to women. It applies on the streets just like in text.
Don't fall into the AFC trap of being all up on her shit in person only to become a nice guy pussy in text. It's incongruent and no longer arousing for her. If you care about her, I'd try to get her to invest into you more now. Make her chase you a notch. Don't always initiate contact and always reward her good behavior and flirt a lot. Don't tone anything down unless she gets offended. I just push her as far as I can and through her reactions calibrate what I can get away with. It's always way more than you would ever think.
Edit: I just realized that she already gave you a bj and you finger banged her. Okay, great.
Maybe go with one of these...
Are you coming over on thirsty Thursday for another protein shake?
Truth or dare?
My cock is so hard thinking about you. By that, I mean happy Thursday.
I'm on my period this week. The only sex you're getting is oral.
Fun fact, giving bjs is 100% effective birth control.
You can't just use me for sex ya know. If you do, at least pretend you like me.
Once you have had some sort of sexual contact with a woman you can ramp up the sexuality of your texts to the next level. Maybe you can figure out a highly charged sexual message on your own that is similar to the above.
One last trap I used to fall into its trying to text what I think she wants to read.
Don't do that.
Text her what you want to convey without apologies for being attracted to her. Tell her what you want to deliver as alpha as you can without worrying about her reaction.
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" She said "hahaha sounds like a good night" That was our last exchange.