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Author:  Rs5150 [ Sun Mar 24, 2013 6:17 am ]
Post subject:  Girl admits to low self esteem

At a popular local bar tonight, I walk up to get my last beer. HB8 next to me buys it. And admits to having a low self esteem somewhere in the Convo. We chill for a while turns out we have alot in common. She runs off woth friends after texting me a picture we took together. Before she leaves I tell her she needs a date with a nice dude, like me, and she agrees. Where to go now?

Author:  snake112 [ Sun Mar 24, 2013 7:05 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Girl admits to low self esteem

im no professional man... but im going to go out on a limb here and say uhhhhh......... Go On A Date With Her!

dont over complicate things

ps: this is kinda obvious but alot of girls out there have low self esteem and im pretty sure that also makes them a little easier to sleep with.... its fucken easy make her feel happy and pull the trigger your in.

Author:  Rs5150 [ Sun Mar 24, 2013 12:57 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Girl admits to low self esteem

Haha no shit?! Obviously I'm gonna take her out dude. The thing is.. Woth a girl who goes as far to admit she has low self esteem, probably has pretty godamn low self esteem. I'm looking for game ideas here. Overly nice and she won't be interested. Obviously she dates assholes. But I'm not am asshole, and don't want to be to get this chick in the sack.

Author:  Hunter_Foxe [ Sun Mar 24, 2013 1:17 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Girl admits to low self esteem

Don't read too much into it. All girls are insecure, even the HB10 models. This could be a shit test to see if you will fall into the nice complimenting guy category she can use to stroke her ego while she goes off and fucks an asshole. LSE girls only fuck guys who share the same opinion of them. If you don't want to be an asshole, be hyper sexual with her instead, like you can't control yourself when she's around. Escalate.

Author:  snake112 [ Tue Mar 26, 2013 5:43 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Girl admits to low self esteem

you dont have to be a nice guy to make a girl feel speical man. obviously you dont over do it with validation on the first date. make her win you over have her break down your shields. validate her when she deserves it. but dont lose your dominate frame. keep it with your tone and body language. and give her some good old negative validation too(push pull.) make a connection and build up her self esteem very very slowly. by having a bit more positive validation then negative.

thats just my style man. i like to bring low self esteem girls up. i like the "leave them better then you found them"

girls only like assholes because they (well most of them not all) act dominate, not needy and dont take shit from people. girls see that as strength (even though i think most assholes are just covering up their truely weak innerself)

what i take from this is to have strength but vulnerability as well.
which makes you seem stronger because you must have a great level of strength to be vulnerable but yet still strong.

of course every womans veiw of strength is different. more manipulative women will try to flip the vulnerablity into control but if your strong you should spot it. personally if i feel a women is manipulative i kick her to the curb.


strength= attraction
vulnerability= connection
read "models" by mark manson its an amazing book man.
Quote:
If you don't want to be an asshole, be hyper sexual with her instead, like you can't control yourself when she's around. Escalate.
some great advice!!!

Author:  poeticlyskuac [ Mon Apr 01, 2013 1:17 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Girl admits to low self esteem

Moved to closing and day 2s

Please be aware of the rules. Thanks!

Peace and Love,

Vic

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