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Author:  nublet97 [ Wed Feb 06, 2013 10:57 am ]
Post subject:  Girl didn't respond to text
Met a Brasilian girl on Saturday and I got her number and then a little later that night I asked her out. We went out the next day, Sunday. Date went ok.. it was in a city I'm unfamiliar with and so I had planned to go to a bar, but she doesn't drink much. We went to a coffee shop, which in my opinion is a terrible place for a date.

Anyway, the conversation went well and we got along. It was a pretty quick date, which is what I prefer. As I was driving home she shot me three texts in a row, said I was a great guy and very handsome and that she had a wonderful time... I responded and said I had a good time too. She texted a little more that night and I cut the conversation and went to bed.

Next morning I shoot her a text to say good morning. She responded no problem and we went back and forth for about 10 mins while I was in class. She did however just stop responding to me. I didn't text her back.

Later that night, she sent me a text saying she's going to bed and sweet dreams. I said good night to her and that I hoped she had a good day.

I didn't send anything the next day, and neither did she so I sent her a text that night.. was gonna ask her out for the weekend but she never responded.

Her texts before, seemed like a pretty clear indicator of interest then she just stopped.. which seemed strange.

Obviously I'm not sticking around pondering too much, I already am going out with a different girl this weekend.. but I would still like to keep this girl as an option.

So, what is my move with her? Do I just not send anything more here? Do I wait for her to text and then if she does, let her wait a bit?
Author:  TheRedBaron [ Wed Feb 06, 2013 5:34 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Girl didn't respond to text
I hate this shit... but if you were having positive interactions before it's possible something happened/she became really busy/forgot to text you back/etc.... just give it a few days and be sure that your texts to her are fun, emotionally engaging, and most importantly building toward the date
Author:  nublet97 [ Wed Feb 06, 2013 7:16 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Girl didn't respond to text
Hey man, yeah it usually sucks but I don't worry about it.. I just move on to the next.. but with this one I was surprised because she seemed more into me. I thought I might still have a chance.

Still set up the date with the other girl though.


Anyway, she responded this morning and apologized. She had went running and fell asleep early. I waited a couple hours after I got out of class and now I'm going to set up a day to go out again.

I'm going to cut off some of the texting though and make her feel like she has to contact me. I'm going to take the upper hand back a little.
Author:  Malcolm Thomas [ Wed Feb 06, 2013 7:24 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Girl didn't respond to text
Forget about it and move on. You should always be focusing and working on more than one woman. That way you remain outcome independent which makes you more attractive. So she didn't text you back. Find another woman, meet her, get her another, and send her a text. Dating is a number's game.
Author:  nublet97 [ Wed Feb 06, 2013 7:35 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Girl didn't respond to text
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Forget about it and move on. You should always be focusing and working on more than one woman. That way you remain outcome independent which makes you more attractive. So she didn't text you back. Find another woman, meet her, get her another, and send her a text. Dating is a number's game.

Not sure if you read my post or not.. but I said I already set up a date with another girl. I also said I moved on but I was very surprised because she seemed into me.

I also followed up and said it turns out she just slept early because she went running. We're going out this weekend, I have two days free and I'm taking out both girls.
Author:  TheRedBaron [ Wed Feb 06, 2013 8:30 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Girl didn't respond to text
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Forget about it and move on. You should always be focusing and working on more than one woman. That way you remain outcome independent which makes you more attractive. So she didn't text you back. Find another woman, meet her, get her another, and send her a text. Dating is a number's game.

Not sure if you read my post or not.. but I said I already set up a date with another girl. I also said I moved on but I was very surprised because she seemed into me.

I also followed up and said it turns out she just slept early because she went running. We're going out this weekend, I have two days free and I'm taking out both girls.

There ya go. Can't tell you the number of times I've freaked out over a girl not replying to my text the day after a great convo, only for it to turn out she was busy or something that demanded her attention came up.
Author:  nublet97 [ Wed Feb 06, 2013 9:58 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Girl didn't respond to text
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There ya go. Can't tell you the number of times I've freaked out over a girl not replying to my text the day after a great convo, only for it to turn out she was busy or something that demanded her attention came up.
Funny thing is, not very long ago I'd have moved on and never texted this girl again. It was actually my ex-gf that told me I'm too cynical with women and should care a little bit more.

I think, as you get more options its really easy to just cut off contact with a girl without a second though.. and while the more opportunities can bring more women, you might lose out on other opportunities if you're too quick to bail.

That being said, there's a huge line between what I'm suggesting and being the wimp and trying when it's obvious he doesn't have a chance.
Author:  Jesus_PT [ Wed Feb 06, 2013 11:41 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Girl didn't respond to text
knowing that MGDS..... you should really focus on the many....

numbers game.... that early sleeping its plain Girly bullshit / shit test to see if you go after her or if you panic

a great first date is actually a comedy movie.

although, when the interest is mutual, i actually seem to always have interesting things to talk about.

when the girl is plain dumb or uninteresting i finish the date and move on.

if she is hot remember that there are always someone else gaming her and trying to win her over so.... play hard and remember every chance you have to kino/ kino escalate is great

(movie.. popcorns.. give them to her mouth.. then take them away before... they go crazy ;)

cheers mate
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