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| Author: | noreason41 [ Tue Jan 29, 2013 6:30 am ] |
| Post subject: | slept with girl, she has a bf..help |
So the nightbefore last, I ended up sleeping with a girl unknown to me she had a bf. We were friends before this event but hadn't slept together in a couple years. So the other night I initiated conversation, end up at her house and we fuck. During the night she said a few things about her boyfriend, mainly that he was overseas till Friday. then today, I got a text apparently from her friend (but from her phone) saying that she was a bit fuzzy and asking if we'd slept together. "nothing personal, you know how she is" or something to that end. I'm thinking this has something to do with her feeling guilty or something of the sort, as she definately wasn't completely gone. thoughts? I can provide more context if needed |
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| Author: | TheRedBaron [ Tue Jan 29, 2013 7:13 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: slept with girl, she has a bf..help |
More context would help, but it sounds like a classic army wife situation: her bf is overseas, she's horny, he's not there to satisfy her, so she cheats on him. Fucking skeezy ass thing to do, if you ask me. Especially since she kept the bf a secret until after the deed was done. |
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| Author: | noreason41 [ Tue Jan 29, 2013 8:23 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: slept with girl, she has a bf..help |
He's only been overseas for a couple days, all up a week i think; if that matters. I'm looking for advice on how to reply, or is their no point really. Also, i found out when i got to hers that she had a bf, but i don't think she's serious about it. Context; I've known her for a couple years, she used to have a big crush on me but i was never so into her always kept her as a Fbuddy. I just got back from overseas (3 months) - it was the first time i spoke to her and an hour or so later i was at her place. She definitely knows we slept together, so i'm not sure what to make of the text other then guilt to her BF or that it's a sign she doesn't want it to happen again?. The text is from her phone, however apparently her friend sent it. |
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| Author: | TheRedBaron [ Tue Jan 29, 2013 9:06 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: slept with girl, she has a bf..help |
I would ignore the text. It sounds like she's shit testing you because 1) why the fuck would her friend send a text from HER phone? That's not the kind of emergency you need to immediately text from someone else's phone even if your own is dead and 2) why the hell is she asking you? If this so-called friend was for real, then she'd just ask the girl you fucked since they're both friends... she's much more likely to get a straight answer out of her than you. And if it really is her friend, then it's not her fucking business. Either way, you have no obligation to reply. Alternatively you can try directly asking the girl face-to-face, the one who is supposedly texting you, like "Why do you ask?" to see if she's for real, but personally I'd delete it and forget it unless it's brought up again. |
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| Author: | noreason41 [ Tue Jan 29, 2013 9:22 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: slept with girl, she has a bf..help |
Quote: I would ignore the text. It sounds like she's shit testing you because 1) why the fuck would her friend send a text from HER phone? That's not the kind of emergency you need to immediately text from someone else's phone even if your own is dead and 2) why the hell is she asking you? If this so-called friend was for real, then she'd just ask the girl you fucked since they're both friends... she's much more likely to get a straight answer out of her than you.
Thanks for the advice, that's kind of the way i was thinking of going.And if it really is her friend, then it's not her fucking business. Either way, you have no obligation to reply. Alternatively you can try directly asking the girl face-to-face, the one who is supposedly texting you, like "Why do you ask?" to see if she's for real, but personally I'd delete it and forget it unless it's brought up again. Only thing is that i may not have been clear in my messages (was posting from phone) - I'll repost the text since it's more clear. "Holly's a tad fuzzy from the night before last! We need to know if you two slept together because she's not sure!! - nothing personal, u know what she's like" So it's more like she talked about it and got her friend to text... Again thanks, and any more advice is appreicated! Also; I don't think there's any chance she's 'not sure'...lol |
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| Author: | iamjstar [ Thu Feb 07, 2013 5:15 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: slept with girl, she has a bf..help |
Definitely talk to her face to face about it. |
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| Author: | MavenPhaseshift [ Thu Feb 07, 2013 5:59 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: slept with girl, she has a bf..help |
This is a shit test for sure. What she is effectivly asking is can you keep a secret. My bf has access to my phone. If you can we can do this again. If no we are done and i gotta delete your text. That's what that text means. If you want her as a f buddy go fuzzy and forget yourself meet up with her and act normal. If you don't fess up and tell her, and she will treat you only as a guy friend. it isn't her freinds it is her seeing what your going to do. |
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