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Author:  CaliForniCatioN [ Wed Dec 19, 2012 1:52 pm ]
Post subject:  The conversations turned amazing,then she stopped calling/tx

Met this HB7.5 - 8ish and hit it off pretty good.

We went out,drank a bear,I walked her to her car,she asked if I can stay a bit longer,said yes and we started talking about everything/anything for three hours.

She gave obvious IOI's and hinted things of "us"..it was pretty fucking easy.

We started texting the day after,I ran a perfect game on her and she started calling and shit.

Talked for 4-5 hours total.

We talked about sex,positions,things she like,how many times she can reach an orgasem and she even admmited she's a nimpho.

She was all over me,things got hot,and then I changed the subject to psychology and she fell asleep.

Now,this shit is funny as fuck. I'm aware of that fact.

I understand that I prob' shouldn't change topics if we talk about sex so bluntly,I get it.

But the thing is,I've been away for a week and this convo took place on the phone...Now,what good will come out of this if I can't do anything?! Zero.

So I decided to build a conection in this week..Through psychology.

Now I'm no fucking AFC be sure of that. I know that logic kills the mood with chicks and that sex talk is ideal for you but..as I stated I was away for a week and what good can possibly come from erotic talks for a whole week?

The thing is,after she falls asleep I texted her she's rude and that she will have a good night(kinda joked there though)she responded "oh common! don't be mean I didn't fell asleep!"

I send another"GoodNight!" and since then,two days ago she stopped texting and calling,which is weird considering how much she liked me.

I should mention that I did this to claim domminance,the last word is mine kinda thing..She already told me she's domminant in the beggining but then she becomes soft..and so she look for a domminant male.

So -should I text?Call? Or should I wait some more? How much more?

There was a time that I would next a girl like that in a flash..Cause I only looked for one nighters and I wasn't looking for a GF..things are diff' now cause I want a GF and she's the right material.

Also,I'm a Combat Soldier so I don't get to game.At all.

Author:  puaninja [ Wed Dec 19, 2012 3:41 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: The conversations turned amazing,then she stopped callin

I'd call. You already have crazy rapport built up, why revert back to stupid text messaging?

Author:  CaliForniCatioN [ Wed Dec 19, 2012 7:01 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: The conversations turned amazing,then she stopped callin

Quote:
I'd call. You already have crazy rapport built up, why revert back to stupid text messaging?
Thing is,I'm still away..For the upcoming 4 days I'll be far from her.

Would re-initiating/talking to her now bear fruits? If I'll call her now it'll kill the tension between us.

Wouldn't it be better if I'll wait 'till I'm home in 4 days and meet up and start escelating F2F?

I mean,we talked about everything we could/wanted to up until now...I'd be fucking the shit outa' her if I was home.

What more could we talk about?!

Opinions?

Author:  conquistador1982 [ Wed Dec 19, 2012 7:17 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: The conversations turned amazing,then she stopped callin

These are the steps to get a girl to see you again after meeting her!
Meeting--call her to see a date to meet again--meet her and game her---f-ck close her after 8 hours!

skip the endless texting...she will get bored and loose attarction, try to meet her face to face!

Author:  CaliForniCatioN [ Thu Dec 20, 2012 9:21 am ]
Post subject:  Re: The conversations turned amazing,then she stopped callin

Quote:
These are the steps to get a girl to see you again after meeting her!
Meeting--call her to see a date to meet again--meet her and game her---f-ck close her after 8 hours!

skip the endless texting...she will get bored and loose attarction, try to meet her face to face!
Bro,I appreciate the effort and good intention in helping me but,I'd prefer if you'd actually READ the motherfuc*ing thing and answer accordingly...As puaninja did..Kinda.

Again,I'm not new to pick nor to this forum,stop answering to me like I'm some AFC.Please...I wrote some magnificent shit on here plus helped alot of people,so...Yeah.

I know how to game,don't fucking give me the step by step shit....Man..

All I want is to hear opinions since I've never tried to game a girl that could possibly be my future GF.

I'm a one nighter,as stated before. I just want to hear a third party opinion 'cause I care for her a bit more than other HB's.

Author:  CaliForniCatioN [ Thu Dec 20, 2012 9:36 am ]
Post subject:  Re: The conversations turned amazing,then she stopped callin

Update:texted,she responded immidiatly,texted each other for like 3 min' and then I said I'll call ger in a bit.

She texted I'll call as soon as I'll Uni and we'll talk..Responded after half an hour"sure.."

She calls,we talk..I lose attraction,she seems boring,I end the convo' nicely.

I'm gonna dump her today.

I've lost intrest..fast..I guess I don't really want a serious relationship now.

I just don't want to invest.

Author:  CaliForniCatioN [ Fri Dec 21, 2012 3:07 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: The conversations turned amazing,then she stopped callin

Anyone else been through this kind of shit? Finally wanting a serious relationship,but lacking the will to invest!?

I am very confused right now..Can it be that all that 5 hour chicks I had for the past two years have taken their toll on me,and now I need to change the core foundations I've built as a 'Player'!?!?

Author:  ants3940 [ Mon Dec 24, 2012 1:22 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: The conversations turned amazing,then she stopped callin

let me guess, as soon as you established that she was back into you and something could come of this...you lost interest. And you thought that if you got with her you would lose out on all the opportunities to meet and fuck other women? it's a common issue dude.

There are two ways to look at it. you could either keep fucking lots of different women and having meaningless sex that boosts your ego for the night.

Or (as i have done in the past) you can meet a girl and give it a really good go. DON'T see anyone else, commit to the girl and see where it takes you. it COULD be the best thing ever.

I'm not knocking either approach. I've done both. I basically embarked upon a brilliant relationship that i ended up destroying because i wanted to fuck around again. Now i regret it and want to get serious with some one again. of course i'm having fun til i meet the correct girl.

Of course there is a third option. THIS girl just wasn't right for you, and deep down you knew it???

Author:  Langlo [ Mon Dec 24, 2012 6:58 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: The conversations turned amazing,then she stopped callin

I totally get what you’re saying man. I don’t think you’re wrong about changing your foundations. If you don’t want to talk about sex all the time it doesn’t make you AFC or worse less of a man(just saying). You have other interests. And she falls asleep on you. That’s rude and I don’t buy that you said so only to claim dominance. I’m not surprised you lose attraction. It’s been a long time since you guys talked about everything/anything for three hours. You already forgot about it. btw she wasn't SUPER rude.

Author:  CaliForniCatioN [ Tue Apr 09, 2013 11:51 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: The conversations turned amazing,then she stopped callin

I apologize for the super late reply. I've read both your posts and I did learned from your advice. It's so strange;You sometimes KNOW something,yet until people come and say that to your face,it's like you didn't knew it.(talking about your advices).

Thanks guys,appreciate that.

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