So I will admit it. I have contracted one-itis
. For context: I met this girl at a party and probably exchanged a couple words with her. A week later I find her on facebook and send her a quick message and a friend request. She did not remember even meeting me. We started talking though and hit it off immediately and turns out we have similar problems in life. After that first convo, she started saturating her messages with smileys and actually initiated most of our convos since. 2 nights ago (i fucked up here as well) i give her my # and say txt me soon. No response on FB. She texted me at 8am the following day. Last night we talked again and found out that she is an insomniac like me (my insomnia was unknown to her when i gave her my number) and it turns out she didn't sleep at all that night. I deduced that she waited all night to text me so I'd be awake to receive it. Anyways, I had a quick exchange this morning with the HB9 I'm into and it goes like this:7:17(her): hey sorry i fell asleep on you, i didnt sleep the night before so i slept last night.
7:55(me): hey its no problem
ill call you later today kay [never called her before; was trying to move forward in progress]8:30(her): alright sounds good
end convo
I was busy all day, so I call her at around 5. four rings and voicemail. i assumed she was working so i left a message saying ill try again later. at 9:30, i try again and full rings + voicemail. i didnt leave a message. no contact since and i know shes been on her phone since. What do y'all think about this? Is it salvageable? Don't tell me to move on because I'm pretty much over it (detached emotions from situation). My plan is to just go radio-silent until she contacts me.