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| Author: | deenio [ Wed Nov 21, 2012 4:35 pm ] |
| Post subject: | I see her every day, how to escalate? |
An HB9 that had shown strong IOIs 3 weeks ago when we started to hang out (with a group). Now I see her every day on campus, but we only have a 5 minute conversation and she shows very little IOIs. What do you think I should do next? (longer description below) Thanks! |
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| Author: | deenio [ Wed Nov 21, 2012 4:36 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: I see her every day, how to escalate? |
Here's a longer description in case you'd like more info About 3 weeks ago, I started hanging out with a girl. We went for dinner (with a group) and went to a party. Both times, she showed strong IOIs, and by the end of it, we shared a cab ride where she had her head on my shoulder and my arms around her. Following that, we haven't had very long conversations. We would see each other every 1 or 2 days at university, but never have more than a 5 minute conversation before either she or I left to do whatever we were doing. It died down gradually, and I think it had to do with my lack of reaction to her flirting (though I did a little). She took my cigarettes to 'try to help me quit', and would give me a couple every day when we met at school. I think it's her way of making sure she sees me every day. I would text/call her to ask where she was, and she would come to where I am to give me my cigarettes, and then she would leave after a 3 minute conversation. I'm wondering what my next step should be. Should I not see her for a couple of days and pick it up from there, or should I continue this trend and hopefully have a longer conversation to lead to a 1-on-1 D2? Her IOIs have definitely diminished from before. Thanks! |
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| Author: | Thedutchone [ Wed Nov 21, 2012 6:38 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: I see her every day, how to escalate? |
How about you start acting? You say it yourself, you don't flirt back... You don't take action? Go for it, make a move. |
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| Author: | deenio [ Wed Nov 21, 2012 7:53 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: I see her every day, how to escalate? |
I've been in this situation at least 4 times now with different girls (in the past few months), so would love a bit of advice. For the next time I see her, how should I 'flirt'? Any examples? Thanks! |
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| Author: | RonnPaul [ Wed Nov 21, 2012 9:08 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: I see her every day, how to escalate? |
Yo man, flirting just goes with the flow, it is natural, thats how it should be. If you are relaxed and conftorable around her you should be flirting with ease. I had hard time closing, going for the n/close and k/close, but at one point you just have to go for it and not give a fuck! Just do it, bassicaly that is the corre foundation of the whole game. Hope you will take action and never miss a chance. Good luck man |
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