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| Author: | ScandinavianPUA [ Tue Nov 20, 2012 10:56 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Help, possible flake - can't figure out this girl! |
Hi guys #closed this girl at a bar a couple of weeks ago. Been texting with her a bit, trying to set up a D2. the thing is; she is really shitty at texting. Days, even up to a week goes by without answer - but when she does answer, she seems interested! Long story short. I texted her the day after meeting her. She didn't reply, so I thought "fuck her" and moved on. One week after she suddently texted me and asked if I was going out that weekend. I waited a couple of days to answer, just to punish her. When I did answer, I suggested the weekend after instead (to meet up before going out, or to meet up at a bar) A week went by before she responded. She apologized for the late answer, and now she suggested to find another weekend! This is my respond, and our latest texts - I feel a little stuck! My respond: It doesn't exactly give you bonus points to forget me, but okay I forgive you;) I'm pretty bussy so don't know when I'm goin out again, where we can meet up - my calender is fully booked. But maybe we could meet up for a cup of coffee some day, instead of finding a weekend were we both aren't busy.. She didn't reply to that, and two days after I sent this: Wow, texting sure is your thing, huh;) Don't know how to understand your lack of answer.. but anyway, you can try to text me if you'r going out some time, then if lucky we can figure something out. Her: (loooong answer) I didn't forget you, but forgot to sent the message. So please delete that negative point you gave me;) I know I've been very slow to answer you, but I'm so stressed out at work right now + I'm looking for a new apartment and stuff.. so a lot on my mind. I know it's a lame excuse, but that's the truth. And therefor I'm not in a place in my life to go out dating right now either. That has to wait to when I'm settled in my new apartment. But sounds really nice, if we could find a weekend where we could hang out and go out to town later. Me: All right miss slowhand, I'll give you half a point back then;) I didn't exactly mean it as a date, I'm taking things pretty slowly too right know. but cool, let's find some day - maybe next weekend? Know, almost a week later, still no answer! What do I do from here? my plan is to set up something this friday.. Should I text her tomorrow, suggesting friday? Should I give her a call or would it come of needy? or should I put her on ice, and wait for her to respond, even if this means that we will pass another weekend? Every suggestion from you guys is really appreciated. Thanks. - "Scandinavian" |
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| Author: | RonnPaul [ Wed Nov 21, 2012 9:20 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Help, possible flake - can't figure out this girl! |
I had this happen to me. If you feel there is no attraction at this point between you and her, then just forget her and learn from it! Send her a text, if you think that is fine and normal, but dont be needy and dont worry about that will she answer or not. If she doesnt answer, cool, you will go out and get other girls, thats actually what you should be doing right now. One/itis is not good, you lose your focus. Go out, get other girls, there are lots of them. Im talking here from my own experience and im not in the game for years, but i learned some things and basically what is most important is that you go out more and constantly approach lots of girls. You cant lose anything really. |
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