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Author:  Shady Shakes [ Sun Nov 18, 2012 4:06 pm ]
Post subject:  Sexual escalation the key to closing?
What do you guys think about using sexual escalation as the method for being able to f close?

The idea being that you keep amping up the physical touch to a level were you both going back to hers becomes almost inevitable?

It seems so simple in my head, but any tips on how to use the right kind of touching and to move from touching to leaving to go to hers would be much appreciated. I've read Vin Di Carlo Escalation ladder, and it's very good, but I still struggle in working fast enough and knowing how to let her know I want to leave. It's the big flaw in my game right now, and I'm eager to stamp it out :)
Author:  worldrunner [ Mon Nov 19, 2012 10:26 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Sexual escalation the key to closing?
In my experience after the first kiss, sexual escalation and starting to make out there in the public place, will lead to an amazing and very enjoyable make out session but it has never lead for me into a f-close...
What has worked for me in terms of the f-close is to treat her as if she was my long term girlfriend, so you continue as nothing happened, just teasing by almost touching the prohibited zones now and then, and kiss her from time to time, but nothing dirty... She might want to start to make out hard, do not let her... is your girlfriend at the moment and you want her to be respected.
At one point just say: "I want to go home".

If logistics work for you at that day, she will follow. If not, do not worry, do not hurry, just be very casual and sooner than what you expect, she'll be home alone with you...

P.S. Being with a woman who likes you and is having something physical with you is amazing... just enjoy it... if the F-close does not happen who cares! you are still having the time of your life... The only way to screw it up is when you skip the fun by thinking about what to do next...
Author:  FCgame [ Mon Nov 19, 2012 11:28 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Sexual escalation the key to closing?
Sexual escalation is extremely important but there are lots of factors you have to care about before trying to sexually escalate her meaning if it’s the right place and most important the right time you have to be socially calibrated to realize when to do it and how to do it; this last part is what really makes the difference between having sex with that girl or going back home alone. If you think she’s getting into that “state” just be direct , there is nothing wrong with that. You can just tell her “ Let’s go to my place” or if you don’t feel comfortable saying that just tell her “ let’s get out of here” if she doesn’t say anything then… go for it.
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