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| Author: | eddieb02 [ Sat Nov 17, 2012 3:35 am ] |
| Post subject: | Closing issues |
My approach and initial game seem solid. I get great convo keep it light and funny and honestly usually have the girl begging me to take her number. I happen to be a pretty good looking dude and I think this is covering up some major holes in my game. I am trying to figure out how to take it from the point where u just meet, be it thru friends or out at a bar, build the attraction, continue w kino, pick up on her ioi to hangout again, and all the signals girls give u to say they dig ur vibe and want to hangout. I have 2 issues, first is once I get the number I am getting a decent amount of buyers remorse from the like warm response / flakes I am getting recently 2nd issue is if I wanted to how do u close right there, I'll bounce to a new place, and I try to slow things down to seduction but really could use a detailed play book on how to close. It's the one thing that I feel the material out there doesn't layout well. So much of the stuff out there deals w the opener and mid game but let's here some expert methods on how to close Thx for the help I could use it bc definitely had some hb9s really wet for it only to go cold later |
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| Author: | DaveUrkel (BlackWhitePU) [ Sat Nov 17, 2012 8:40 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Closing issues |
If you're getting flakes, you are probably not qualifying enough. Do you give girls reasons you like them other than their looks? And if you do, how do you do it? Most guys don't qualify enough and the ones that do usually do it the wrong way. And as far as the closing question, what do you mean exactly? Are you asking how to go for the kiss or are you asking how to get her back to your place? |
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| Author: | eddieb02 [ Sat Nov 17, 2012 9:32 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Closing issues |
I'll give u latest example... Met up w some friends and one of their mutual friends comes over sits next to me and chats me up... Run verbal game for solid 30 min and run Keeno. Build comfort dhv etc. so Even tho we are sitting together way to tacky and not the right setting to go in for a kiss, and no place to isolate. So She mentions how we have been dating for 30 min and wants to take a pic, we do and she give me her number and asks me to send it to her... Trying to bounce to another club but since we were in a group wasn't going to be easy pull so I figured my game was tight and the number was good. I leave club she follows and asks where I'm going, I put out my arm and start leading her... She gets a bit cold and I realized that as much interest as she showed she wasn't really asking me many questions, so I realized that my closing game is not solid, I had the cocky funny the cool guy the leader, but I didn't have the game to slow it down and seduce and I realized that the early game comes naturally but the closing doesn't feel natural, and as a result I get lame flakes when I call or text |
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| Author: | GamesSN [ Sat Nov 17, 2012 10:33 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Closing issues |
I get this aswell. I completely shut down when it comes to closing. I either over think it or draw it out too long. Recently met up with a friend of a friend and her mates after work. I gave a time constraint but lost track of the time. Most of the time I was chatting away with her and her friends would be around but other times her mates would leave us alone. I chat, do kino, joke around with her, do c/f and freeze her out if she doesn't respond well and get along with her friends. Everything to this point is fine but closing... It's just not natural to me and this is an issue i've had for a while when girls are clearly looking for me to close on them. I hear people say "Just go for it, don't think about it" but that only really works for me when I open a set. When it comes to closing it's so much harder even though i've got the eye contact and everything. I think a general rule or set of steps to follow would go a long way in how to atleast k-close on a girl. |
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