Hey guys, a few suggestions. So I've been out of the dating world for awhile now and feel rusty. I'm having trouble in thinking of my next step with this girl.
Set Up and Meet: I met this girl through a couple I know about two weeks ago. I mainly went to see my old college roommate and his girlfriend who I also went to school with but two of her friends were there also. That night I'm not really focused on these two but I do want to plant a seed in case of anything in the future so we are talking prior to going out and all three of us are interested in what the other has to say. We then go out to the bar and have a great time and while hanging with my friend while also involving the other girls. Go back to my friend's girl's place where we talk a bit more and I start to focus on one of the two girls. We have a good conversation until it's time to go but both she and the other girl ask if I want to go to a concert with them in a few weeks. Turns out we liked the same band.
IMPORTANT PART: Last night was the concert and I went with them. Come to find out the girl I didn't focus on had a boyfriend (he wasn't there mind you) so she was already out of the picture which left me free to work on this other girl. It was good. She and I were close and talkative all night (when we could, it was a concert after all). At one point I noticed she was getting bumped by another guy who was jumping so I switched places with her. She later thanked me and said it was a better view anyways. Concerts great, and time with her is great until a bit later in the night. I can see she's starting to get tired and I try and keep the energy up but it's not working. She seemed to be getting cold... We all end up leaving early and they take me home where we go our separate ways (I had work the next morning and they had homework).
Later that night I sent her a text saying "thanks for the invite, I had an awesome time. And try and enjoy Emma [the book she was reading for homework], if that's possibly this late." To which the only response I get was "Thanks, we had fun too!!"
Analyzation: What I've gathered about this girl is that she's not a partier. She like to be low-key and quiet. She has middle of the road self-esteem but she claimed that she has low self-esteem.
Short and Simple Question: What is my next step? I have her number, it's still the next day so do I text game with her? And how do I set up a more personal meet? Any suggestions where to go?
Like I said I've been out of it for awhile. And this isn't oneitis, I've got two others I'm working on right now but this one is the one that has piqued my interest at the moment.
Thanks for any help.
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