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Author:  Ninja1992 [ Sat Oct 20, 2012 6:51 pm ]
Post subject:  PLEASE HELP ME NAIL THIS GIRL!
So here's a little backstory on me and this girl...

We met a month and a bit ago at a club. Make out with her and isolated/built up comfort easy enough. Her logistics weren't good for extracting her so left with her number.

We've dated since then.

I've been on two dates, one of which ended at mine with no sex (but did get sexual with her...). The second date we pretty much did the same thing in a park (sounds corny but w/e)

I set up a quick date again on this Thursday coming; drinks and back to mine (hopefully).

This is what she sent to me when I asked her...


Me: "you up to anything next week? xxx"

Girl: "aww :P haha not really, meeting friends and stuff though :) might have some time for you :) but not for.. that.. lol :) xxx"


She's clearly let on to sex by bringing it up on her own accord. Although she says she doesn't want it to lead there just yet...

How would you go about getting her back to mine on this date I've planned?


Cheers,
Ninja
Author:  Txacoli [ Sat Oct 20, 2012 10:05 pm ]
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Don't worry about a little ASD, just enjoy her company and the evolving chemistry. When time comes to go home, tell her you'd invite her over but you're worried she'll want to do "that", but if she promises to behave, she can come. When you get home, let the tension build, don't jump at her, just push pull and tease and it should all develop nicely. During the date let her know subtly you're not the kind of guy to take advantage of a girl etc, she'll be naked by the end of the night, hopefully :) If not, it's still fun!

Good luck
Author:  Ninja1992 [ Sun Oct 21, 2012 5:46 pm ]
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So frame it like she wants to have sex with me and I'm hesistant :P sounds like fun haha...

I do know she wants it as she's not been hesistant to my advances. Last time she was worried that things would get sexual again, but they did and I didn't hear her complaining ;) Sounds like framing and sexualising things in general is a good idea to bring that part of her out :)
Author:  Ilustrado [ Sun Oct 21, 2012 6:04 pm ]
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Reminds me of a line from the movie Spread: "When a girl tells you you're not getting any, before you ask, before you even try, you're getting some. "

The truth in that is debatable, but she's obviously thought about having sex with you if she's bringing it up before you even suggest it. Plus she didn't say that she didn't want to have sex with you, she said that she might not have time for it, which kinda implies that she see's you in a sexual light. Just go for it
Author:  clickngo [ Sun Oct 21, 2012 9:34 pm ]
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Girl: "aww haha not really, meeting friends and stuff though might have some time for you but not for.. that.. lol xxx"
She already wants to, just give it time. Don't force it, you will ruin it. If a woman tells you she is interested in "that" and then shes willing.
Author:  Ninja1992 [ Tue Oct 23, 2012 12:42 pm ]
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No doubt she sees me in a sexual light after those two dates :P letting the interaction deepen and evolve into something more shouldn't be too hard. I tried pushing it a lot on the first date, so I got LMR and she felt bad about it. I guess letting things develop naturally is better.

The question is, how long will that take? Probably not too long, but still :P
Author:  puaninja [ Tue Oct 23, 2012 2:18 pm ]
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LMR goes away with trust. Trust is built with comfort and rapport. There is no time limit per se, it's just about how much focus you put on doing it. Keep seducing but don't push too hard for the f-close because then you'll start to lose her trust, which is a step backwards. If you have to wait a little longer then do so. Time is on your side.
Author:  Heywood Jablowme [ Tue Oct 23, 2012 2:24 pm ]
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Don't worry about a little ASD, just enjoy her company and the evolving chemistry. When time comes to go home, tell her you'd invite her over but you're worried she'll want to do "that", but if she promises to behave, she can come. When you get home, let the tension build, don't jump at her, just push pull and tease and it should all develop nicely. During the date let her know subtly you're not the kind of guy to take advantage of a girl etc, she'll be naked by the end of the night, hopefully :) If not, it's still fun!

Good luck
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