First, I want to mention that this is happening to me for the first time so any critique or suggestions are welcome!
Ok guys heres the deal. I met a friend (yes a girl
) from childhood on FB, so we had a lot to talk about cause we haven't spoken with each other for 10 years.We talked a bit and she offered to have a video call so we can see each other - OK. We definitely exchanged IOIs and I offered her to go out bowling to catch up. She replied with interest and we set a date - ok.
When the date came she didn't even called earlier but wrote me on FB the same day in the afternoon that she is very exhausted from college and just want to rest.. I was a bit disappointed but hey, sh*t happens to everybody so I played it cool.
A few days later I texted her with "Hey, are you ready to accept the bowling challenge? A) Yes, B) No, C) Leave me alone .... Don't reply if your answer is C - I'll get it". So she replied almost immediately with Yes - OK, so we set a date again.
When the date came I called her in the afternoon to "check the status"
but she didn't pick up. A few hours later she wrote me on FB (AGAIN...which I think is very disrespectful when you have plans with someone to wait for the lats minute to inform them) that she had a very tough day and had a crash with the car (a few scratches to the paint of her friend's car - nothing serious) ---> I was like but remain cool and after we talked for a little about the crash I said "So I guess I'll have to let you win tonight." (which I thought was funny). ---> She then declined with the lines we all heard before - exhausted, want to take a shower and get some sleep and so on. ----> I was a bit mad at that point cause its happening for a second time and come on....I was looking forward to it - twice! But I replied "Oh, ok. Its been a tough day for me too. But don't worry! According to my sources we have time till 21st of December" (wanted to make a joke about the so called "end of the world") but yeah, she didn't get it right.I don't want to build a virtual relationship with this girl and I believe each minute spend in chatting will only get me closer to the friend zone!
Enough retrospection! I am confused how to proceed from here! Should I try again after a few days (I think its a little needy - come on two failed times and I still want to go out with her? Well I want but how should I act this time?)