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Author:  Ninja1992 [ Fri Oct 12, 2012 6:22 am ]
Post subject:  Extraction - How to go about this?
So imagining you've found a nice girl and you've stayed in set for a long enough time with her, you have her friend's/group's approval and you're alone together making out hard, how would you go about extracting?

I personally would display my intent by kissing her harder, grabbing her ass, pinning her against a wall, basically quite direct but making sure she;s feels comfortable with what you're doing (not too overtly)

Then, pulling back from making out with her and flashing her a long DTF look, saying 'Let's go to my place' (assuming that she can). I like to add "That's okay, we'll just chill out and unwind" if any protest shows up.

Would this be a good way to go about things?

Also, how often would you suggest attempting to extract a girl in order to get a good kinaesthetic feel of how it should be done. Unfortunately I barely ever stay in set so this doesn't happen often.

(Last time I did it though, she was very into it but couldn't and friends were staying at hers...)
Author:  AmazingArt [ Fri Oct 12, 2012 9:43 pm ]
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Saying "let's go to my place" (which usually implies let's have sex) will usually force girls to say no because she doesn't want to feel like a slut. Instead I would first move her around the venue for a little while and then tell her "let's go check out this kewl place" and just take her to my place. Or you can say "let's go watch this kewl movie at this place". It's funny because in any of these cases the girl knows what you want whether you say it directly like you do or whether you say it like I suggest. The difference is if you say it indirectly the girl will not feel like a slut because she has an excuse now. Girls hate to feel the responsibility of things especially having sex because it makes them look needy. So if you can shift this responsibility on yourself they'll have easier time justifying their actions.

As far as staying in the set and extracting it all depends on you. If you like having a conversation with the set then extract less often. If you hate wasting your time and talking to the set and would rather just take the girl you like and fuck her then extract more often.

- Amazing Art -
Author:  Ninja1992 [ Sat Oct 13, 2012 11:48 am ]
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So the 'extracting phrase' has to be indirect... why am I not picking up all these things? Lol :P

And that could be anything, like you said. The only problem is saying something like for example 'Let's go get some food', is that if she genuinely wants food it could potentially ruin the sexual tension.

If she senses your true intentions of having sex with her, will this matter?

Personally I believe, like many concepts in pickup, there is a balance with how much time you put into a set before extraction. You'd need to get it right; not too lengthy a time-bridge so that the sexual tension runs low/you become more tired (etc...), and not too quick that she feels slutty and so you build up a decent connection.

I suppose it would depends on the girl and her logistics... usually I find myself waiting around til the club closes because she's with friends... how would I go about seperating her from them to extract her?

Cheers,
Ninja
Author:  AmazingArt [ Sun Oct 14, 2012 4:16 am ]
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Woman have much better senses than we men do they therefore can determine really fast and easy what your true intentions are. The girl will know you want sex and it wont be a problem. In fact,there is a high chance she wants sex too. But she want's sex that wont make her feel slutty. Regrading food, that's why I don't like mentioning food. Mention something else, a kewl movie, a nice place, etc... But even if you mention food and she wants it she wont lose sexual attraction towards you. All that will happen is, it will dialed down and when you actually leave the club you can not take her to food and reestablish the sexual connection.

As far as time bridging etc... Forget about those concepts they will only mindfuck you. Here is what to do, go with this girl as far as possible. For ex: start by holding hands, reading her palm, then kiss, then make out etc... get to as far sexually as possible. If she is with few friends most probably she will come with you. You have to lead in order for that to happen. I would usually say something along the lines " I know your with friends and probably not used to separating from them, but we are so attracted to each other it's just so much sexual tension between us(make out then say), come let me take you somewhere really fast" basically this lets her know that you understand her situation but genuinely like her. If she's with one friend it's usually pretty hard to extract her. In that case I would try to go sexually with her as much as possible and then exchange numbers.

- Amazing Art -
Author:  Ninja1992 [ Mon Oct 15, 2012 11:47 am ]
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Cheers dude :P that's probably going to be my extracing line now lol, that or 'I need to take some money out...'. Just anything indirect that won't make her feel slutty but still express your inner motives :)
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