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Author:  Ninja1992 [ Sat Oct 06, 2012 7:19 pm ]
Post subject:  Specific material surrounding SNL/number closing
People of the world! Just wondering if you can recommend any specific material surrounding achieving SNL and number closing.

Not too familiar with SNL however I have been able to extract before... familiar with number closing, only I would like to turn more sets into numbers.


Any recommendations?

Ninja
Author:  Conker [ Sun Oct 07, 2012 2:11 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Specific material surrounding SNL/number closing
Improving your life in the female side of things is a wholistic approach. It doesn't happen by setting an expected outcome from a girl, it happens by developing yourself and being sure of what you want.

A SNL is what you end up in after you become attractive enough that a girl wants to do that with you. No "material" alone will get you there.
Author:  Ninja1992 [ Sun Oct 07, 2012 3:58 pm ]
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That makes sense, it should be a kinaesthetic skill to be called upon and gathered when the time is right. Unfortunately I don't have that knowlege yet unlike the rest of my game (up until sex comes into play).

By material I don't mean canned material or routines btw, just something like any online seminars, etc... Still, the best way to learn is through experience I guess. Should be trying harder :P

I've done a little research around achieving SNL as of last night, I've found 4 key principles that I should model my approach around:

- Leading
- Intent
- Physicality
- Playfulness

Would you suggest this is an appropriate way to go about things?

Ninja
Author:  Conker [ Mon Oct 08, 2012 12:59 am ]
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Of course - but that's not specific to SNL, that's anything that's being attractive.

Once you're attractive, and then a girl finds you attractive (which is still going to be based on personalities, the moment, etc.) the kinds of things you would do that would lead to an SNL would be like 10% of all the effort you've put into yourself so far. It's merely a direction.

Yes the best way to learn is through experience. You should basically be getting out and talking to as many people as possible and watching their body language to gauge how you're doing. Whether you specifically go out to do it for extra training is up to you, but you should definitely make an effort when you're out doing your day-to-day stuff. Talk to the checkout chick, talk to people at the bus stop, etc.

When you find yourself trying things and at a loss as to how to take things to the next level is a good time to start asking for answers.

Which is probably where you're at. Can you give more info, eg. a specific situation where you wondered what you could have done different?
Author:  Ninja1992 [ Mon Oct 08, 2012 4:37 am ]
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I can think of quite a few, but there isn't really a difficult situation I haven't already learnt something from.

Thanks for your help anyways bro :)
Author:  Ninja1992 [ Thu Oct 11, 2012 8:14 am ]
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Something I've just thought of now...

What I usually do to set up D2's to good effect is text her all fun and casual, engaging her emotionally and whatnot, THEN set up the D2 at the high point of the interaction and her emotions.

I could do something similar with extracting a girl; I could try and turn the heat up with making out with her and using sexual touch and whatever - assuming we're isolated and she has good logistics for pulling - then on the high point, pulling away from kissing her and say, 'Let's go to my place' or something to extract the girl.

This sound good?
Author:  Conker [ Fri Oct 12, 2012 4:39 pm ]
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You don't understand - there isn't a set of steps you can follow that will get a girl into bed.

I asked you for a specific example because it's the best way to point out what you're doing wrong and put you in the right direction.

Right now all I know about you is you seem overly focused on a set of steps that will magically get a result, which isn't how it works.

If you're doing something and getting results - good - if you have confidence in yourself and know how to have a good time that will get good results. You can even try your set of steps if you like, and if you're confident about it, it'll probably work too. But it will all mean nothing if you're not being in the moment and reacting to what's going on.
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