Hey I need some advice here,
at my university I had been told that there's an HB8 who really, REALLY, wanted to meet me . I went to a party last week and she was there, so I started talking to her and we were dancing then after maybe about 20 minutes of dancing she asked me "do you want to come to my place tonight?"
I didn't give her a direct answer (in my mind of course it was a fuck yes), so I wouldn't sound like a desperate man but after about 3 times of her asking me i "gave in" and told her yeah .
The whole party she was holding me hand and leaning her head on my shoulder, all this cute cuddly shit nonsense , so then we left to her place - she takes off my socks & I take off the rest till i'm in boxers and she goes in pijamas .
I started rubbing her body and tried to go for the pussy but she stopped me and said "I dont want this to be a one night thing, I want to have a relationship and be long-term". in this case in my head I was like WTF i dont want that shit especially because I just met this girl today. She told me she really liked me and wants me for a boyfriend . She brought up some other girl I made out with two weeks ago that I didn't talk to her the day after we kissed, asking if I was going to do the same to her. She kept on telling me this stuff and asking me questions about "what type of person I am" or if i'm interested in possibly having a relationship (to which I told her I would think about it but that i'm not sure if I have time for one because I hardly have time for myself; told her this to keep it kinda neutral ) until after about 30 mins we went quite and and I went for the pussy again and she was with it. Then I got a condum my friend had given me at the party and we fucked .
We slept for like 1-2 hours till she had to wake up to go to school, which I walked her to cause it was on the way to my crib anyway.
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Now the next 3 days at school she walks past me with her friends but doesn't approach or even look over. I sent her a message on fcbook 2 days after our night just saying "hey" and she responded back the same shit. Then I told her hi at school once as she walked by and said hi back but kept on walking with her friends. She hasn't made any effort to talk to me even though "shes" the one that wants to have a long relationship with me etc. , apparently..
a very important thing I forgot to mention was that I've had friends tell me that she sleeps around a lot, she was NOT tight I must say. lol. But she did tell close friends of her (that told me), that she really wants me as a boyfriend and likes me.
Now I think there's a few possibilities. Either 1) she tells this to guys she sleeps with . 2) she's shy and wants me to talk to her, not just a 'hi'
and what i want to do... I don't want a relationship (I just dont have time with school), but I am down for something unofficial or fuck buddies.
What do you guys suggest I do? I don't get why she doesnt really make an effort to talk to me, I really think it's because she's shy but I may be wrong.. I don't want keep on forcing myself to talk to her because well, I feel like I'm doing all the work - even though that night she asked me "are you just going to ignore me at school after tonight because that's what you did with my friend". so I'm kinda confused .
what do you guys think I should do? i'm not sure if I should write back to her on facebook, or if I do , what do I tell her? It's kinda hard opening her in person too because she's always with her friends and i'm always with my friends.
thanks
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? Maybe im wrong, but it sounds like it's the other way around now.