Sup fellow PUAS...
So i have had one-itis for about a year now and i have posted about her on here. I am not going to give you the whole story its on here if you guys want to look it up. We have been very flirty touchy feely etc etc since 1st day i met her. she always avoided isolation with me until the past month where we have been going out the past month just ourselves. we went out to movies, dance clubs..yet i still haven't made the move..
so i finally gave up... i told myself im going to make the move... idont care if i get rejected or not because this is the only way of getting past the barrier and knowing wether i can get her or not. 2 of my friedns had oneitis , 1 did not make the move at all so he never knwew what could of happened, the other told his oneitis that he liked her b4 making the move so he ruled himself out.
anyways she hits me up after a show she was supposed to go to got cancelled. we went out with my friend had a fun night out when we came back. i kissed her.. she didnt reject went inside her house on the couch made out, took her to the bed and made out some more. in the car i told her i liked her n everything AFTER i had made the move..so after when i was her bed and we made out heavily n stuff but she was telling me that she liked some guy and doesnt know blah blah...so its 4 am and im like w.e. im out.. on my way out she takes off her shirt only in a bra and asks if i can give her a back massage i do and i kiss her in the mouth good bye.
SO how did i Get over oneitis?
well to be honest, i never really got over it, its much better than before the reason why is because i fucking went for it. Its true wat the pua masters say.. just go for it.. simple as that.. you dont know how many times i have read that on the forum... i am writing as witness to that advice... it fucking works.. even if the outcome comes out negative you learn!! and now i feel good about myself... i have been talking to other women ( wat is reccomended for getting rid of oneitits) and now idc so much about this chick. now lets be real my feelings aren't gone completely but i feel much much better and don't think bout her constantly.
and if you need help getting over approach anxiety, get a sales job..i had a sales job this summer and fucking a did it help get rid of AA.. u might not like forcing ppl to buy crap but its fucking great.. so if ur debating about making a move on your oneitis,,, FUCKING GO FOR IT
even you fail... you will FEEL GOOD..anyways... so after this weekend after making out with her
,, i got a little sick and i txt her 3 days later, convo goes like thisMe: hey,
Me: were you sick recenlty? or have mono lol
Her:No why
Her:???
Me: I had fever the past 2-3 days..was wondering where it was from
Her:Nope. Not me. And dont you dare tell ppl it was from me. sorry i happened to be wasted and you took advantage of the situation. I mean we're cool but i was stupid
Her: Hope ya feel better
Her: ur prob sick from going out and drinking everynight- that will fuck up ur immunity
Me:NO i told the wholeee world -______-
Me: thanks
So y am i still talking to her? becuse i wanna see how far i go until i fail.. and if she doesnt want me like that, thats fINE cus.. i finally got passed the k close i wanted. and if doesnt work out. ill learn for the next girl thatt fit under my qualities that i look for like gambler suggest
Wat do u guys make out of that txt? is it buyers remorse? or automatitcally friendzoned? idc either way just curious so i know where im at in my learning process