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Author:  GameIsOn [ Thu Jun 21, 2012 9:15 pm ]
Post subject:  Closing with girl you know for a long time!
I've got this girl, who I already know for several years, but nothing has happened between us since the moment I met her. She's a 9 definitely, and my text game has been pretty good the last few days. A little playful and sexy. The problem with this girl is that she's an attention wh*re, who really searches for compliments. I've got a date on Tuesday with her, I've had more dates with her, but never happened. I don't feel like I'm in the friendzone, because she doesn't treat my like a friend or anything. She's definitely one of a kind, she's a little arrogant, and has a lot of confidence.
What should I do, in order to get her?

Our text now are like this:

She just said her dad got a boat.

ME: Nice, when do we sail together?
HB: Sure, seems nice, together on a boat
ME: Yeah, but first you have to see Bali (I always promised her I would take her to Bali)
HB: My dream!! Name the date!
ME: First you'll have to take me on your boat
HB: Hmm, it's kind of a big boat. You'll need some strenght
ME: I've got strength enough..
HB: Hm, you and me on 1 boat? You'll need your strenghts for something else probably...
ME: Too raise sails?
HB: Hahaha, we can try it out even without a boat...

and so on, and so on..
The problem is that she's being acting like this for a very long time...
Author:  The Zohan [ Thu Jun 21, 2012 11:09 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Closing with girl you know for a long time!
Quote:
What should I do, in order to get her?

.....

HB: Hmm, it's kind of a big boat. You'll need some strenght
ME: I've got strength enough..
HB: Hm, you and me on 1 boat? You'll need your strenghts for something else probably...
ME: Too raise sails? [Facepalm]
HB: Hahaha, we can try it out even without a boat... [Try what out?]

The problem is that she's being acting like this for a very long time... [Nothing seems strange to me. It just seems like you're not picking up on the "hints" that she's throwing you.]
Author:  zeltir [ Fri Jun 22, 2012 1:25 pm ]
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No, if I read him correctly, he got the hints alright (raising sails/mast is a euphemism here, anyway), and that's his problem, that he can't find anything further than that.
Author:  GameIsOn [ Fri Jun 22, 2012 2:11 pm ]
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@zeltir: Yeah, I do get these hints, but it has been this way since forever and I still haven't done anything here...
And the raising sails was indeed just a joke haha
Author:  Slick_uk [ Sat Jun 23, 2012 12:14 pm ]
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Quote:
@zeltir: Yeah, I do get these hints, but it has been this way since forever and I still haven't done anything here...
And the raising sails was indeed just a joke haha
Do what you've always done, get what you've always got.

You need to take control and escalate before she gets bored dude. Where are you going on this date Tuesday?
Author:  DUbL-eS [ Sat Jun 23, 2012 12:23 pm ]
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She likes you bro, just hang out with her and escalate so you can raise the sails or whatever
Author:  xxXTemptationXxx [ Sat Jun 23, 2012 2:05 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Closing with girl you know for a long time!
Quote:

and so on, and so on..
The problem is that she's being acting like this for a very long time...
Oh boy,
Who hasn't been there, I remember I was In a one-itis with a girl just like that.
That's what they do with little AFCs buddy, I'm not being bitter, I'm being helpful,
If you want to have success with her, you have to learn to have success with weman on GENERAL.
YOU HAVE ONE-ITIS :!: , what? did I just hear you say you don't?
Guess what?!
YOU HAVE ONE-ITIS :!:
and if that's not enough I'll tell you again:
YOU HAVE ONE-ITIS :!:

Dude, if you think anything is ever gonnna happen, why don't you MAN UP
and ask her out to get rejected for once and for all, and then start your real jurney to MANHOOD :D .
That's right BIG BOY, she's using you,
btw, why would you promise her to take her to bali if she hasn't even slept with you?!
let her earn it, go fuck other girls, and she'll be all over you :D
Author:  GameIsOn [ Sun Jun 24, 2012 11:24 am ]
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Quote:
Do what you've always done, get what you've always got.

You need to take control and escalate before she gets bored dude. Where are you going on this date Tuesday?
We're just gonna have a drink, and afterwards, we'd probably go to my place, she's been there before, so it's a familiar environment for her. I guess I'll just have to close her there and if that doesn't work, I'll leave her alone, and get other girls.
Author:  GameIsOn [ Sun Jun 24, 2012 10:40 pm ]
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Today we were texting a bit, she was a bit off guard by what I said..

Me: What's the difference between a fish and a shark?
HB: Don't know, you tell me?
Me: I don't know either, but now I've got your attention
HB: Haha good for you!
Me: So.. what's the plan for Tuesday? I say let's go for a quick drink.
HB: Yeah sure, but why are you acting like we're just meeting for 20 minutes...
Me: I'm yours the whole evening, so you can see me even longer! And maybe I'm yours at night as well!
(I thought this was a good move)
HB: Wow, how lucky am I?
Me: Do I notice some sarcasm in your text?
HB: Uh yeah, you're acting like I must be excited to even get some of your time!
Me: Aren't you excited then?
HB: Sure, but it sounded like I am some kind of sad girl... I'm specially coming over to see you, so you're lucky also! (She lives in another city)
Me: I didn't mean to sound like that, maybe it came to you like that because it's a text.
HB: No worries

And then I didn't respond anymore.
Clearly you can see that this girl, isn't used to be treated like that. I didn't reply because honestly I didn't know what to say. So should I leave it with that, or text her another time before Tuesday?
Author:  Mago812 [ Mon Jun 25, 2012 1:28 am ]
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Quote:
Me: Aren't you excited then?
HB: Sure, but it sounded like I am some kind of sad girl... I'm specially coming over to see you, so you're lucky also! (She lives in another city)
Me: *I didn't mean to sound like that*, maybe it came to you like that because it's a text.
HB: No worries
You started good, but you made basic mistake i used to do...you set your value high, which you should, but when she challenged you, you failed.

If you say "I'm the greatest!", she will probably say "Are you really?" and then you have two options:

1. Sure, I could move mountains...I don't know if I could move you...but mountains definitely! (or some other pozitive cocky-funny-bit-negging-stuff)
2. Yea you're right, I'm not, you are.

Which one demonstrates more power? :)
Author:  GameIsOn [ Wed Jun 27, 2012 11:23 am ]
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An update:

So we had our drinks yesterday evening, everything went alright, just chatting a little bit..
She said that her last train was around 1 am and she had to catch it. I said I had something at home I wanted to show her, she's a very curious person so she definitely was up to that!
Back at my place I showed her this mini from 74 and we took a ride with it. She really fell in love with it haha, the mini did the game for me! I dropped her off and the train station and we began making out. I said: just sleep over, I will drop you off first thing in the morning with the mini... She was hesitant, but eventually she slept over. At thought this was a good sign, and I could f-close.
But when we were in my bed, she didn't want to have sex because I study in Amsterdam for a few years, and she says she doesn't even want to know how many girls I got there blablabla.
I really thought I could f-close her this time, but she keeps on rejecting. I really had the feeling that our intentions were the same. I this point she was staring, and clearly over thinking things, so I said: You aren't falling in love with me are you? And from the moment I said that, it was definitely over, she was mad.. Did I make a wrong move?
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