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| Author: | Siedways [ Thu Jun 07, 2012 9:12 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Am i in the friend zone |
If a girl tells you she has feelings for you but will not hangout with you, what does that mean. To develop, this girl will text me on average twice a day, even if i don't reply. Her friend tells me that all she talks about is me, and how much she likes me. Yet, I will ask her to hangout and she never will. I know that she works, but offer to hangout a nother time at least. She has not done this. How do I play it? Normally after I ask her to hangout , she declines, I STOP talking to her for at least a few days, in which time telling myself I'm done with her. But I always give in and start replying to her msgs again. What should i do? Any opinion is welcome |
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| Author: | TheSeagull [ Thu Jun 07, 2012 9:14 pm ] |
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have you EVER been out with his girl, kissed her and stuff? if yes, then you might want to surprise her.. go pick her up from work and bring her out to dinner if not, she is probably having fun of you or just being bored, and her friends are helping her game.. |
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| Author: | Benjamin Graham [ Thu Jun 07, 2012 10:16 pm ] |
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It sounds like this chick might be pretty interested, so don't take it personally if she isn't available. She may be legitimately busy, or you may be asking her the wrong way. Are you being vague and saying stuff like "Hey, wanna hang out this weekend?" IMO, that's pretty boring; you need to make her excited to hang out with you! Someone with a bit more experience may be able to provide more input on exactly how to ask her out. The one thing I would say is that you need to give her options. If you say "Hey, wanna ____________ Saturday at 8?", she may be legitimately busy at that time. However, if you were to say "Hey, I was thinking about _________ , and I thought it would be fun if you came with me. How does Friday or Saturday night sound?" The main point is that you give her some sort of option in case she is legitimately busy during one of the times, but you want to still stay in control of the situation and keep the ball in your court. By inviting her to go somewhere with you that you were already going to be doing anyway (even if that's not necessarily true), it makes it seem like you have a lot going on in your life and that you will have a good time with or without her (attempting to DHV). Also, don't give her so many options that it makes you needy; two should be sufficient IMO. Like I said, someone with more experience may be able to provide more specifics on how to invite her to do something (or share a critique of my advice), but that's what I have found works for me and my personality. |
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| Author: | Manic. [ Thu Jun 07, 2012 10:26 pm ] |
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dude im in the same situtation! i feel like strangling her throat off |
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