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| Author: | ilovenyc [ Thu Jun 07, 2012 4:41 am ] |
| Post subject: | Seeing Ex for First Time in Months |
I swear this isn't just a random one-itis thing. Broke up a while ago and trying to figure out the proper frame to sleep with her a few more times. Here's the back story - will try to keep it somewhat succinct. Dated this girl for a few months last year. Knew her somewhat in college but didn't really talk until we ended up living in the same city and I randomly messaged her one day on Facebook. Things started off really great, then started souring until we broke up a few months later in a somewhat messy fashion, mostly initiated by her. So, afterwards, I was understandably upset for a couple weeks but after seeing that this breakup was going to last I went for the freezeout. Didn't talk to her for a couple months until she texted me on Valentine's Day to ask me if I had sent her something. I surmised that either a) she had received something from some random dude and wanted me to know about it, or b) she didn't get anything and was just trying to make me jealous. I simply responded that that ship had sailed and we didn't talk for another couple months. Lately, we've been Texting back and forth every week or two, but never were able to solidify plans; once, I invited her to come out but she couldn't make it, then a few weeks ago she texted me to meet up at a rooftop with her, a few of her friends and her mother (who loved me) but I figured that leaving my friends to do that would be a serious AFC move and politely declined. We talked for a while today, mostly lighthearted, but she asked me a bunch of questions about my life and, to be quite honest, I've changed a lot since we broke up and mostly in ways that she had always wanted. Will probably end up meeting up wtih her tomorrow or Friday. My questions mostly relates to the frame and behavior I should adopt when I see her. First, if she asks me to go meet her and a bunch of her friends, should I do so or is that a totally weak move? I had been going for the one on one but that may be too onerous a provision for a first meeting. Additionally, I was simply going to act like nothing had happened, as if we're old friends meeting up for the first time but kinda flirty like when we started dating. Any thoughts? Or any routines / ideas you would recommend incorporating for optimal results? Note that I'm not 100% sure if I'd like to get back together with her (although I'd be somewhat open to it) but moreso would like to sleep with her again and see where that goes. Any advice or insight would be greatly appreciated. |
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| Author: | LEPRECHAUN [ Thu Jun 07, 2012 6:43 am ] |
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Sounds to me as if no one else wants to date her. And she's using you as her "fall back plan". I say you should go, but bring a PAWN. PAWN = a girl "friend" to act as your girlfriend.. to see if your ex gets jealous. This will have your ex trying to win you back. She will "pretend" like it don't bother her.. but it will bother her. After spending about an hour or so with the ex and her friends, look at your watch/phone and tell your PAWN... "We better get going, we're meeting our friends at [club name]." Then leave your ex and her friends. *** Now, what you want to do is actually go to this other club. Find seats where you can see the entrance. You know what your ex is wearing, so you can spot her when she comes in. If she don't come in within an hour or two. She's crying to her friends about how she lost you forever. If she does come in.. you got her right where you want her. Stand up. Walk right past your ex holding your PAWN's hand. Look at your girlfriends eyes.. if it looks like they are "puffy" or "blood shot".. she has been crying.. she might try to hide it by looking like she is pissed off.. but you can't hide puffy or blood shot eyes.. Well, with Visine, but who carries that around with them. *** After you leave the club seeing your ex. Just drop your PAWN off at home, and then you can do whatever until your ex sends a text message later that night. When you get that jealous text from your ex, you can just tell her: "Look. I thought we would be the cutest couple. The girl I'm with is fun to be with.. if you think that you have changed, and want to give US another chance, I am willing to try. But if you start acting the way you did in the past, it will be over between us.. for ever." Now that she has seen you with another girl, and you are saying this to her now, she WILL want to give it another shot because she has seen that you are NOT only focused on her.. you are giving another girl all the attention, and she wants it back.. NOW. *** Jealousy is a POWERFUL emotion to use to your advantage. Just have to use it in moderation. Good luck. |
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| Author: | pablohernandez [ Fri Jun 08, 2012 2:52 pm ] |
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Good advice. Jealousy is a doubled edged sword. |
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