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| Author: | jaffy [ Tue Jun 05, 2012 9:25 pm ] |
| Post subject: | she seems skeptical yet interested |
met a girl at a bar/club. we chatted a little bit, flirted (feelin me up a bit), danced, kissed on the dance floor. before leaving, i got her number and kissed goodbye. texted her to try to get a day 2. but from what i can tell she seems skeptical yet interested. apparently just recently her and her BF broke up. she seems skeptical cause i'm the guy she made with while she was drunk at a bar, but still somewhat interested. she keeps saying "maybe" about a day 2. i invited her to "the coolest bar in town" but she says "maybe" if she can bring friends (i already told her i was planning on meeting some friends there on). from what i can tell, she wants to bring friends to make sure i'm not a creep or a weirdo -- which is cool and all, but i still need to get her alone. so here's my question: should i try to push for another day when it can just be the 2 of us? or accept the fact that she isn't comfortable going anywhere alone with me yet and just go as a group? BTW, there wasn't a whole lot of rapport. |
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| Author: | LEPRECHAUN [ Thu Jun 07, 2012 6:11 am ] |
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Go there with a group setting. Most, if not all females. Never go to bars/clubs alone. They will be traveling with friends. If you can show her friends that you're a good fun person. They will tell her that you are good fun guy. Females listen to their friends opinions about people. They trust their decisions, otherwise, they would not be friends with them, right. So, win the friends over. Pay attention the girl you're interested in too. Ask her friends questions like, if they are from around this area, what's the best restaurant to eat at.. blah blah. After a few boring subjects, move the conversation to some pictures on your phone of you with friends doing some "cool" fun things. (If you don't have none.. create some). This will show her friends (and her), that you know how to have fun.. you have fun friends for her friends to hang out with also. Win win for everyone. I know this is a little long. But just remember to WIN HER FRIEND OVER. *** As for getting her alone. Let's face the fact. There are few "masters of the game". We all can't be as good as they are. FACT. Females these days (the ones that are dating material), are very delicate creatures. Don't expect to get a female to go somewhere with you just because you made out on the dance floor (or whatever), the first night you meet. (Unless she's a wh0re). I, myself, never ask a female to go somewhere with me alone, until I have known her, talked to her, found out her interests, dis-interests, etc.. for about ONE WEEK. This gets her comfortable with you. Shows her that you're not only trying to get her into bed. Shows her that you care for her. (Even if you don't, play it like that). *** If you're only looking to get fast lays. Try hookers. Or go to the "red light" room of your local strip club. |
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