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Author:  Franches [ Mon Jun 04, 2012 3:21 am ]
Post subject:  failed after day 2 advice?
so, went out with a girl and after gaming her with some routines and teasing her ass of i managed to have my first kiss close using p.u.a methods. Thing is, i invited her to a barbecue i was throwing, when she arrived i tried to use jay wa tecnic When you walk up to her, instead of hugging her, just peck her on the lips.
Follow up with:

"I thought I'd make the situation awkward now, rather than trying to make it awkward later." -You
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thing is, after i went for the kiss ( without my friends nearby ) she just pushed me away and went to say hi, got a bit hurt so I tried to freeze her out. I didnt pay any attention to her,when she came to ask me something i would just answer her and continue to speak to another girl/friend. She totaly ignored me after that, when se needed a ride home she asked me if i could take her, i did and once we where out i tried again to go for the kiss and she went for it, but she was weird, like she didnt know what to do or say or think. so any advice to what to do to make her more into me would be nice, or at least what i am doing wrong
thanks
Author:  Crix [ Fri Jun 15, 2012 10:09 pm ]
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You probably rushed too moch for a k-close,,,,more comfort was needed probably,,,
Thats my gues atleast.
Author:  Liferider [ Sun Jun 17, 2012 4:04 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: failed after day 2 advice?
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"I thought I'd make the situation awkward now, rather than trying to make it awkward later." -You
lol.. boy, seriously you need to cut down your speed. This is absolutely weird. Give her some room. Let the things happen as it should naturally happen. You should have some control on it, it doesn't mean that you have to rush things. Did you talk to her after kissing? I mean some days later?
Author:  Franches [ Wed Jun 20, 2012 11:35 pm ]
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yep, we talk and see each other all the time, and crix, ure right, i tried going out with her for drinks, alone, and after much talk about life and such i was able to figure her out, when someone wants to kiss her, she rejects, but when she is "ignored" in the sense that i dont care if we kiss or not, she goes nuts lol. Will take advice about not going so fast and such thanks liferider, i realize now you are absolutly right.
Author:  TheNamesDrew [ Thu Jun 21, 2012 5:46 am ]
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Don't think you've figured her out, girls are fucking nuts!! Anyhow ya just take it a bit slower. Try to rub her leg/hand a bit first see if she returns the kino. Most girls also fucking love it when you "draw" on their back/arms! Like run your fingers in different patterns over the upper/lower back and upper arm/forearm, it feels amazing for guys too I fucking love it when girls do it to me! Very lightly, don't grab or make it too sexual, do it in a sort of friendly way at first if you can imagine what I'm saying.
Just some things that have worked for me, who knows maybe they'll help you out!
goodluck my friend
Author:  KINGMVRCK [ Thu Jun 21, 2012 10:50 am ]
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yep, we talk and see each other all the time, and crix, ure right, i tried going out with her for drinks, alone, and after much talk about life and such i was able to figure her out, when someone wants to kiss her, she rejects, but when she is "ignored" in the sense that i dont care if we kiss or not, she goes nuts lol. Will take advice about not going so fast and such thanks liferider, i realize now you are absolutly right.
bro build comfort then go in for the kill..... sometimes patience its the best for a kiss close expecially if your already gotten past day2 and you wanan make it something
Author:  Liferider [ Fri Jul 06, 2012 4:05 pm ]
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yep, we talk and see each other all the time, and crix, ure right, i tried going out with her for drinks, alone, and after much talk about life and such i was able to figure her out, when someone wants to kiss her, she rejects, but when she is "ignored" in the sense that i dont care if we kiss or not, she goes nuts lol. Will take advice about not going so fast and such thanks liferider, i realize now you are absolutly right.
bro build comfort then go in for the kill..... sometimes patience its the best for a kiss close expecially if your already gotten past day2 and you wanan make it something
exactly. it's very important to be patient in such strokes. It'll help us.
Author:  Chase_Mase [ Sat Jul 07, 2012 2:11 am ]
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yep, we talk and see each other all the time, and crix, ure right, i tried going out with her for drinks, alone, and after much talk about life and such i was able to figure her out, when someone wants to kiss her, she rejects, but when she is "ignored" in the sense that i dont care if we kiss or not, she goes nuts lol. Will take advice about not going so fast and such thanks liferider, i realize now you are absolutly right.
bro build comfort then go in for the kill..... sometimes patience its the best for a kiss close expecially if your already gotten past day2 and you wanan make it something
exactly. it's very important to be patient in such strokes. It'll help us.
Well at least we know confidence isn't your issue.. :D

But what about your tolerance of uncomfortableness?? Idk its something completelyy different than confidence - because youre using it differently...Pauses......than longerr pausess.........see how puases............can create a presence............tension.....

escalate and take youre timmmmeee. the better tension the easier the lay, the more bitches want you, the more bitches see that alsoo want you.

take it easy playa ;)
Author:  Franches [ Sat Jul 07, 2012 3:50 am ]
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so fucking true, im starting to use the push pull in a weird way now that its doing wonders, i engage a girl in heavy chat, life, body language, the world, etc. When i see she is getting really into me i stop paying attention to her, and start talking to one of her friends, they become desperate when u do this, by the time i start talking to her again she will be a little offended yes, but ill have her eating out of my hand in no time, im acting like mystery would, im the prize, u gotta work to get me. Already got me 2 f-close and some k-close ( wasnt counting ). Also i found a cool way to kino escalate in a sexy way, u start talking about how we are all animals, and we are wired to feel excited at slightest touch from another person, while i say those words, i very gently brust my hand against her arm, i always get a gasp or a puppy look lmfao works like a charm. And im not so confident Chase_Mase, its just that i have balls, its how it is in Argentina, if u dont behave this way u dont get anything at all EVER, so i had to grow a piece and start giving a fuck about everything. In reality i actually have a very low self-esteem but i never show it, or at least try to. My main problem is that when im in a group and they start talking to each other I panic! i dont know what to do and almost always excuse myself even if it was going well, its just i dont know how to get their attention back without behaving like a moron.
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