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Author:  manutd88 [ Thu May 31, 2012 3:39 am ]
Post subject:  Help for this amatuer

I'll give you a brief background as to what has been happening. And then you guys can then give me your advise.

I have attended 13 weeks of uni and now we have one week of study break before the exams commence.
For the first 4-5 weeks i sat down beside a girl, maybe a hb7 or 8 in many ppls eyes but a look that appeals to me more than the typical hb10 look. We spoke only in the first week and after that it was 4-5 weeks of silence.

However, suddenly one week when i entered the classroom, she was sitting alone and she shouted "Hey, How's is going". So we started chatting. Typically around uni stuff. For the remaining 6 weeks we chat before classes start and after classes end, we walk together to our cars across the road. Last week i suggested that we exchange contacts as it may be useful in helping each other for the exams.

She gladly accepted and took down my number and gave me a missed call to give me her number. Well, I think she's a nice and down to earth person. Before entering our cars, she shouted to me from her car that she will text me with a study plan.

I was wondering is there anything i can text her now?.. Im really bad at this sort of stuff guys. I'm very goal driven and am typically a straight forward person. Any advice on what i should do??

Author:  JSmooth [ Thu May 31, 2012 1:50 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Help for this amatuer

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I'll give you a brief background as to what has been happening. And then you guys can then give me your advise.

I have attended 13 weeks of uni and now we have one week of study break before the exams commence.
For the first 4-5 weeks i sat down beside a girl, maybe a hb7 or 8 in many ppls eyes but a look that appeals to me more than the typical hb10 look. We spoke only in the first week and after that it was 4-5 weeks of silence.

However, suddenly one week when i entered the classroom, she was sitting alone and she shouted "Hey, How's is going". So we started chatting. Typically around uni stuff. For the remaining 6 weeks we chat before classes start and after classes end, we walk together to our cars across the road. Last week i suggested that we exchange contacts as it may be useful in helping each other for the exams.

She gladly accepted and took down my number and gave me a missed call to give me her number. Well, I think she's a nice and down to earth person. Before entering our cars, she shouted to me from her car that she will text me with a study plan.

I was wondering is there anything i can text her now?.. Im really bad at this sort of stuff guys. I'm very goal driven and am typically a straight forward person. Any advice on what i should do??
Based on what you have already done you have already set up the frameword to be friends and study partners for the most part. Big chances in your personality from our advice could honestly do more harm than good. If you like the girl then when you get her alone in a study situation see what you can do by escalating kino and turning the conversation more playful instead of school work oriented.

Author:  Furiox [ Thu May 31, 2012 2:31 pm ]
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Common mistake!

Chances are you will hear the "lets just be friend's speech" as soon as you kino or made your move on her but she does seem into you, so it depends a lot on your looks and personality to make her think off you more then just a friend.

Keep improving yourself and good luck!

Author:  AFC Smooth [ Thu May 31, 2012 3:30 pm ]
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Ah you are walking a fine line my friend.

The study date is a tough one...trust me I've been there, I am trying to get there now, and will likely go there again in the future. It is the natural habitat of seduction for students.

Ok, so you have her number and she said she is going to text you...great. Don't text her, if she said she would contact you, then let her do it. If you text her too much, you will either look super needy and she will be turned off, or you will become "text friends" which will lead to being just friends in reality. Wait a day or two and let her contact you to meet up and study or whatever.

Moving on to the study date...chances are, you are going to be sitting at a table with books, papers around. It is key to have good kino the entire time. You want to sit next to her, not across from her. After you have built up her comfort with your touch, slide close to look at one of her papers or discuss something she did. Then, get her to look up, long eye contact, and kiss close.

If she rejects it, chances are your kino sucked. You have to keep it going the entire time. Good luck and may the odds of avoiding LJBF ever be in your favor.

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