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Author:  manoverboard424 [ Mon May 21, 2012 4:59 pm ]
Post subject:  So need some help, can't tell if this girl was into me

So on saturday, I went out to a bar with a few of my buddies, and I saw this girl from high school that I haven't seen in like 5 years. She was with her friends, who I also know from h.s. Anyways, back in h.s. we weren't like close friends, but we did talk on occasion.

So back to last night. So I obviously recognize her, say hi, and flirt and whatnot. Things seemed to go well, you know I was making her laugh and all that stuff. During the conversation however, she asked me if I had a girlfriend, which I found a bit strange. Also, towards the end of the night she asked me for my number, which I did give to her, and I also got hers. After that she kinda went somewhere else while I started to talk to her friends for a bit, who I also knew from high school. At the end of the night I saw her and her friends outside, and said my goodbyes. I ended up texting her like 20 minutes later saying it was good to see her and we'll have to do it again, to which she replied "sounds good!", and then there were a couple more texts I sent, but she replied with like one or two word answers, but I don't think that means anything.

So anyway, what I'm wondering, based on how our convo went and her asking me for my number, does it seem she could be interested? I mean like I said I know her from high school, so she could just want to catch up, but we were never like close friends and I didn't even have her number back then, which makes it seem a bit strange.

Author:  Heywood Jablowme [ Mon May 21, 2012 5:06 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: So need some help, can't tell if this girl was into me

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does it seem she could be interested?
Yes I see interest. Send a mixed message like: Your a lot cuter than in HS, I think we should hang out and cause trouble! :)

Author:  Beetle [ Mon May 21, 2012 6:07 pm ]
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Not a bad suggestion up there, but make sure that the tone of your message is consistent with what you've done previously. Don't let her bullshit-detector go up.

Author:  Crypto [ Mon May 21, 2012 7:23 pm ]
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Asking if you have a GF is a very high IOI. Depending on how you answer the question you could turn it into a DLV tho! Energetic answers like: "Nope, I'm just hanging out and enjoying my life" is good, "No, we broke up 2 months ago" is bad!

If you were flirting and funny that night, it would be congruent to use a little push/pull humor. Such as what Heywood suggests.

Peace...

Author:  unknownpoet [ Mon May 21, 2012 7:51 pm ]
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