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Author:  SoulSparare [ Mon May 21, 2012 1:40 am ]
Post subject:  Texting Game Possible Mess-up?
Hey whats up guys, I'm new to this forum and I have referenced to the forums countless times before which has saved my rear end but now I feel like I need a closer opinion. Kinda long sorry. So I was at a party on friday night and started talking to some girls. I danced with a few but only number closed with one, and ended up making out on the dancefloor; really good kino and basically sex with clothes on. Added her on facebook on saturday and she messaged me saturday as well.. i didnt respond til today via text but this is how it went:

Sat 2pm via FB:
Her: Sorry for leaving so fast yesterday ;*

Sunday/Today 2pm via Text (after a little bit of texting)
Me: Wow Im a lucky guy lol. I was gonna get into kickboxing after track but I go to the gym now instead

She didnt respond, and we were texting back and forth quickly before this... but I didnt pay any attention to it. Now my bro told me she just broke up a week ago with her bf so maybe she took the "im a lucky guy" part wrong? Im starting to worry now cuz i meant it in 'wow im a lucky guy to meet a girl thats just like me'.

Any tips/advice? If not I'll just call her in 1-3 days to set up a hangout or somethin.
Author:  ibhaZaa [ Mon May 21, 2012 12:30 pm ]
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basically you wanna stick with the "I am the prize, you are the lucky girl scenario".

it wasn't the best text message, but hey, everyone makes mistakes. you learnt from it.

most likely she didn't reply because she is just after a breakup and of course she still sees her ex. and thinking about her ex. hooking up with you and using you as a rebound did seem like a good idea, but maybe she just met him again?

anyway, do contact her again in a few days. but if she doesn't reply or flakes, freeze her out for at least a few months. she is just a after a breakup.
Author:  SoulSparare [ Tue May 22, 2012 2:28 pm ]
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Ahh I see what you mean, hmm this took me a couple steps backwards, but if I can get her out, I got this in the bag. My texting game was better 2-3 years ago, but now I rely on calls and mostly in-person interactions.

Thank you man, I appreciate the help.. This had me stumped to figure out what to say or do just two more quick questions sorry lol..

When we were texting, I kept making her laugh about a "surprise ;)" she was going to get if she won her softball games. Now, should I call her and tell her about that surprise she earned, or text her, and work my way up to the call?
Author:  ibhaZaa [ Tue May 22, 2012 3:11 pm ]
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that great, you have an inside joke, some rapport, totally use them! you have something to begin with.

but don't have big expectations at all. she is just after a breakup, many girls use guys as a rebound right after a relationship. she still has strong feelings for her ex! so you cannot be sure if she wants anything now (even though she might seem like it). hooking up with you drunk did seem like a good idea last week but she is just after a breakup.

do call her, use the inside joke, relate back to the positives, the "surprise". meet her one on one.
Author:  SoulSparare [ Tue May 22, 2012 5:52 pm ]
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Wow man thanks, I really needed an outside opinion. I'm definitely not a pick up artist.. yet but I'm working my way up there. My friends are on the same level as me, so they're not helping as much lol.

Back to the subject at hand, appreciate the effort and tips. I'll call her tonight and tease her bout the "surprise" and schedule a hangout for this weekend. If it doesnt work out now, I'll freeze her for awhile like you said.

Thanks ibhaZaa! Have a great day man.
Author:  ibhaZaa [ Tue May 22, 2012 5:59 pm ]
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hit us back with an update.

pickup is like poker, you have to play many hands to win real big. and its perfectly ok if you don't win all the time, this is what its about.
Author:  SoulSparare [ Wed May 23, 2012 3:33 am ]
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Soo, I gave her a call a few hours ago, and she was surprised that I called her. Nonetheless, I kept the convo light and teased her about not saving my name & number & how she was gonna have to make it up to me later to which she laughed and said sure.

She also told me that she was talking about me to her friend, who also happens to be like my little sister (known each other since we were kids) so I have no doubt that she spoke positively of me. I teased her about that and I got a date for friday night if her mother says ok. The funny part was she didnt want to get off the phone so thank goodness her phone died. She texted me sorry & didnt reply to my next text but whatever.

I got the date so I'm fine with that. Probably take her out to dinner; it's cliche, but I dont have the time to take her out to the park or dedicate afternoons.
Author:  ibhaZaa [ Wed May 23, 2012 8:20 am ]
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that's cool mate, keep up the good work :D
Author:  SoulSparare [ Sun May 27, 2012 5:18 am ]
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Well, what happened to me left me at a loss for words..

I called her on friday afternoon to ask her about our date that night and she picked up rather quickly but she asked "hello? who's this?" Of course I teased her about it saying she forgot to save my number again but I quickly followed up with "Haha, hey what's up its me ____. She then had the NERVE to hang up on me. I quickly called back in seconds but it went straight to voicemail cuz I thought her phone died like it did once before. It took me a few minutes to realize she had just played me.

Now, the only other interaction I had with this girl beforehand was that I called her on Wednesday night, but she sounded busy and said she'd call me back later. I waited a few minutes, started to fade to sleep and texted her "Dont worry bout calling me back.. Have fun at prom tomorrow night and Ill cya friday. Good night" My cousin said I shouldve just forgotten about her until friday but I felt it was only polite to text her that..

Now I'm thinking wtf happened.. and why? I havent spoken to her since and don't really plan to without a plan of action. Silence is my strongest weapon I think. What do you think?
Author:  SoulSparare [ Mon May 28, 2012 7:32 pm ]
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BUMP. Come on guys? It's not the end of the world but its itching at the back of my head as to why this happened and if it was me so I can learn from my mistake. Thanks for any input :)
Author:  ibhaZaa [ Tue May 29, 2012 6:15 pm ]
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that's how it is sometimes. i think she is back with her ex, or just wants to erease momories from the last time because she felt slutty about it. no big deal, at least you found out. and you had the balls to call her.
Quote:
Dont worry bout calling me back..
that was too AFC

no you can move on and find other girls, don't contact her again.
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