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Author:  desire212 [ Mon May 14, 2012 3:14 pm ]
Post subject:  girl interested but doesn't reply to messages

Hey guys I could realy use some advise on my next move with a girl from the gym. I was chatting with one of the girls friends on one of the machines and she was telling me that her friend, this girl fancies me. I made a move on her got chatting to her got a lift home and got her number. I know I wasn't being to soft or mate like but I did use the line in a text in sort of a cocky way that I think she would make a good friend. I'm wondering if she thinks I might be a player (I wish) I was chatting quite flirtOlympic to some of the girl at the class that day (me and a friend had been out sarging that day :-)) so I had quite abit of confidence. Anyway after running some text game on her for a few days she hasn't replied to a text even tho on the other texts she was saying lol alot and saying I was funny. Please can someone tell me what to do next I don't want to come across as needy but I want her to know I'm interested! She might be at a class tonight and I will see her but I had alcohol at the weekend and it totally ruins my game I havnt got that cocky edge and I'm quite timmid after it, it's horrible stuff for me I hadn't drank in ages before that and I was doing well. So now because I have had that I won't know if what I'm saying to her is the right thing because I lose alot of confidence after it. Should I text her, ring her or just leave it even tho I think she could be girlfriend matterial. Please help?

Author:  Enubis [ Mon May 14, 2012 5:40 pm ]
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Do not even remotely act like it bothers you that she hasn't texted you back. The moment you do she'll lose all respect and consider you needy. It fucking blows to be in that situation man, I know how it feels but fight through that shit, act as it's just another day in your kick ass life and you can't be bothered by small shit like that. Remember YOU are the catch brother, SHE has to chase you, not the other way around.

I'm no PUA so I don't know how to proceed as far as waiting for her to contact you, you contacting her, etc.

I'd be very interested in your next step and how it turns out

Author:  pumpington [ Tue May 15, 2012 7:35 am ]
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try just giving things a week to cool off, after a week has passed, call her, talk to her on the phone, ask her out to do something, once she agrees stop calling/texting her until it is time to pick her up, then go hang out with her in person, if she has an excuse for why she can't hang out, or won't answer your calls, then just forget about her, don't waste your time let those kinds of girls come to you

Author:  LBot [ Tue May 15, 2012 1:04 pm ]
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Sounds like you have the opp to talk to her in person, I would take that option so she knows you are not dependant on using your phone.

I have a strong text game has worked well for me alot of the time, even when I break rules that alot of people even Chief strongly disagree with me for breaking them.

But I use this text game when I don't have the oppourtunity to see them in person again.

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