Met a HB9 older woman who is 35 at a bar on Sat. night. Things got hot and heavy....a lot of deep kissing, licking, hands under the shirt and pants for both of us. She seemed a little shy and insecure at first. When I said I thought she looked 29 and not 35, she said, "I love you". She also said several times, "Are you sure it doesn't bother you that I am 35". Her annoying sister was w/ her and made sure that she did not go home w/ me at the end of the night, although she spent most of the night pulling me to different areas of the bar to get us away from her sister.

I text her this on Sun. (next day): "Nice meeting you last night, (name)! I had a good time dancing"
She responds an hr. later: "Hi. I enjoyed dancing as well. I have not been out dancing in some time. Although I feel I should apologize. I am pretty sure I was unladylike last nite....

I text her this at 9pm last night, Wed.: "It is Hump Day...getting closer to the weekend. How has your week been going?"



I have not heard anything back. I am a bit baffled by this as there was a lot of physical chemistry there, and I was positive I would get a response... Anybody have any advice on where I went wrong or how to proceed? I plan on not saying anything else for at least a week unless I get message from her...

Thanks for the reply, brother.

She actually just responded this afternoon (Fri.):

"Hey! Sorry for late response girlfriend from dc in town. She likes to go and go. Hope u r having a great friday"

She is from Virginia Beach so it is viable she did get busy w/ a friend in town. I figured she may be feeling guilty about me contributing to her acting slutty (I was quite aggressive) in front of her sister and wondering if I just want to use her for a one night stand...

This girl had a smoking hot body so I would like to play my cards right and turn this into a consistent hookup.

I figure I need to step back and try to get her wanting to come to me since she was so late in responding...

What do you suggest I do now that she has replied???