PUA Forum :: How to handle buyer's remorse within yourself?

Recently had a girl over, did everything except sex, and now I don't want to see this girl again. It was my first experience with pussy, and we are both virgins.

I did these things under the influence of marijuana, and now I very much regret it because she's in my class and a 6 at best.

An acquaintance from my class saw us walking to my place. I'm ashamed of what I did.

How does an alpha male handle such a situation? I wonder about the power of denial with respect to other's suspicion.

How do I communicate to this girl that I am no longer interested in her, that what we did was a mistake? Do I ignore her, or be honest and tell her I was high? I imagine she might be offended with the latter, but less inclined to make drama.

Tell her:Just because we cum together, doesn't mean we go together. Understand?

Author:	bounty_killa [ Thu May 03, 2012 10:27 am ]
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Recently had a girl over, did everything except sex, and now I don't want to see this girl again. It was my first experience with pussy, and we are both virgins. I did these things under the influence of marijuana, and now I very much regret it because she's in my class and a 6 at best. An acquaintance from my class saw us walking to my place. I'm ashamed of what I did. How does an alpha male handle such a situation? I wonder about the power of denial with respect to other's suspicion. How do I communicate to this girl that I am no longer interested in her, that what we did was a mistake? Do I ignore her, or be honest and tell her I was high? I imagine she might be offended with the latter, but less inclined to make drama.

Author:	Heywood Jablowme [ Thu May 03, 2012 3:22 pm ]
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Quote: Recently had a girl over, did everything except sex, and now I don't want to see this girl again. It was my first experience with pussy, and we are both virgins. I did these things under the influence of marijuana, and now I very much regret it because she's in my class and a 6 at best. An acquaintance from my class saw us walking to my place. I'm ashamed of what I did. How does an alpha male handle such a situation? I wonder about the power of denial with respect to other's suspicion. How do I communicate to this girl that I am no longer interested in her, that what we did was a mistake? Do I ignore her, or be honest and tell her I was high? I imagine she might be offended with the latter, but less inclined to make drama. A true Alpha does not care what ANYONE thinks, he just goes on with his day!

Author:	JSmooth [ Thu May 03, 2012 3:30 pm ]
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Quote: Recently had a girl over, did everything except sex, and now I don't want to see this girl again. It was my first experience with pussy, and we are both virgins. I did these things under the influence of marijuana, and now I very much regret it because she's in my class and a 6 at best. An acquaintance from my class saw us walking to my place. I'm ashamed of what I did. How does an alpha male handle such a situation? I wonder about the power of denial with respect to other's suspicion. How do I communicate to this girl that I am no longer interested in her, that what we did was a mistake? Do I ignore her, or be honest and tell her I was high? I imagine she might be offended with the latter, but less inclined to make drama. I think you address it with her like a man. You go to her and you tell her that things got out of hand the other night. You apologize for not being as in control because of the marijuana, and you tell her that you didn't mean for it to happen, and that you are not romantically interested in her. Hopefully there is no hard feelings and she feels the same way.

Author:	Heywood Jablowme [ Thu May 03, 2012 4:47 pm ]
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Tell her:Just because we cum together, doesn't mean we go together. Understand?

Author:	JSmooth [ Thu May 03, 2012 5:47 pm ]
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Quote: Tell her:Just because we cum together, doesn't mean we go together. Understand? Just because you screw up doesn't mean you have to be an ass to her. Trust me this wins you 0 points with women. Others saw him go in there with her. If she is asked how he handled things "after" it'd be better for him overall that he didn't come off as some Alpha ass. There is nothing anti-alpha about apologizing for a mistake properly and correcting it.

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Author:	bounty_killa [ Fri May 04, 2012 1:00 am ]
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Yeah, I think Jsmooth's approach it better in this context, since I'm likely seeing this girl again. Haha I remember her commenting that I'm such an 'engineer' cuz everything I was doing seemed scripted.

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