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Author:  Fazz [ Sun Apr 29, 2012 7:48 pm ]
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Hi guys , i'll go straight to the point i'm bad at phone and text game and I messed up sooo many HBS due to that so please if you are gonna be ( oh practice and you will learn) or (if i do helpe i'm gonna give you a fish and I want you to know how to fish )
either tell me something or don't really bother!

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girl who is not super hot but she is good and into me and I got her # for a party and we couldn't do that party so I talked to her and she seems into me she is giving me soo many details that I don't need and she send long texts but I messed it up with a long text but last night she text me where am i I told her and she told me that she is in the same place and then she kept me updated till we met I talked to her for like 1 minutes due to extreme noise and then left she text me " lame " , "suck to sucks" , "night " ... I texted what happened and she texted me " she is leaving only one more bar " then I asked where she said 1830 and then fail then epic fail .. I asked what happening then she said she is staying till closing time and then I texted her ok meet me somewhere and didn't show up and later texted where am i told her i'm heading to get food and she said she is already home I told her she is missing the after hour but it's ok night!

guys I feel like she just want to be a text buddy so I don't know what to do to F-close help me!


2- same close for the party but this " i'm in college and i live in a college town " works in a pizza resturant and I see her at the bars and sometimes we talk sometimes we just chill and talk there and I met her and talked to her got her # and left I haven't texted her so i'm expecting the " who are you text " so what should I do

3 - similar to the second but this one I meet her a while ago and she said she knows me from school which was a lie I never ever see her in school and whenever she sees me she comes and dance with me the ( dirty dance ) and leaves quickly ( i mean I don't stop her or follow her ) ...I met her 2 nights ago and we I finally had a good convo with her and her friends who weren't cockblockers all of them were friendly and we talked the even talked about sex because she works in a store for girls sex stuff and her friend talked about it for a bit and a little kino and I took her about the party and got # and walked away ... I texted me my name and left so now what ? ... small note her friend met me last night and told me that "her friend" is here go look for her and she will be happy to dance with you .
another note * what we talked about was somestuff about her and she is 22 and she is fun and weird and she likes traveling about dreaming of going to Dubai also want me to go with her in our "honey moon " !! and a little about where she works and about me and she mentioned something about me heart broken I told her very briefly 2 statement about my ex- girl and i'm not heart broken it's just crazy bitch .....

so plssss guys I need help in F- closing 3-2-1 in order of importance PLZZZ i want your help i'm not scared to talk to them or text them but since I "never" got it right so i'm more likely to mess up than to get something out of it so plss your brother need helpe be generous !

THANKS!
Author:  In$tinct [ Sun Apr 29, 2012 11:50 pm ]
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Geeez... my eyes. Dude. Use some punctuation next time. Most people aren't so kind as me and won't bother reading this through.

As for the texts, it seems you hit it off quite well with some of these girls, so all you should be focusing on is setting up a day 2. You can start with something to get her interested like: "You don't believe what just happened to me" If she's interested she will ask you what, after that you can give her the most random shit ever, like: "I needed to reanimate a mountain goat" or whatever... and you can ask "anyway...up to anything on the weekend? I'm free on(insert any day here) we should hang out."
Author:  Fazz [ Mon Apr 30, 2012 2:12 am ]
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First I apologize for the "no punctuation " ...


alright I got what you said but I have got a question I never texted 2 or 3 so should I just say that out of no where ?
Author:  In$tinct [ Mon Apr 30, 2012 7:22 am ]
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Well it might surprise them that's for sure. But you know... If a girl likes you she will go out with you if you ask her. If she does not like you, you can have a chit chat all day, and in the end she "might" go out with you...as a friend. Okay probably you can exchange a few texts before asking them out, for not coming off as too pushy. But make sure you ask her about it before the convo goes boring.

All those texts should be fun, and you should be well aware of what she texts you. Short answers are not good signs. If she only texts back "haha" or "lol" or something like that, she's most likely not interested... If this happens, you should stop texting her because you're not a clown to entertain her, she may or may not change her mind if she sees you're not this type of guy. If she does, she will text you, if she doesn't, next girl.

These are just some basic rules I know about texting from experience. Even though I don't usually text girls I haven't at least kiss closed. I more often than not try pushing it as far as I can on the field. It's much easier to set up a day 2 if your tongue was inside her mouth you know :D
Author:  Fazz [ Mon Apr 30, 2012 9:34 am ]
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Well it might surprise them that's for sure. But you know... If a girl likes you she will go out with you if you ask her. If she does not like you, you can have a chit chat all day, and in the end she "might" go out with you...as a friend. Okay probably you can exchange a few texts before asking them out, for not coming off as too pushy. But make sure you ask her about it before the convo goes boring.

All those texts should be fun, and you should be well aware of what she texts you. Short answers are not good signs. If she only texts back "haha" or "lol" or something like that, she's most likely not interested... If this happens, you should stop texting her because you're not a clown to entertain her, she may or may not change her mind if she sees you're not this type of guy. If she does, she will text you, if she doesn't, next girl.

These are just some basic rules I know about texting from experience. Even though I don't usually text girls I haven't at least kiss closed. I more often than not try pushing it as far as I can on the field. It's much easier to set up a day 2 if your tongue was inside her mouth you know :D

cool man thanks so i'll sum up what I understood from you ...

the least amount of texts to set up day 2

the short texts from her are more like " fuck off " or test you if she does text other stuff you can try and keep going or it's more likely not to worth wasting time and more on

and don't just test her once or two and then try to set up = too pushy around 4 - five would be good

the first text should be more like "you are not gonna believe what just happened "

well thats what I used in the last three girls I got numbers from before those and I tried to do that .. I say hey( give her a name like shorty or little or something) , it's was nice meeting you and ( something fun or interesting happen with her or we talked about usually fun ones ) and then ask ask her how is your day after all ?

exmaples : " hey kansas girl , it's was nice meeting you and gossiping country people with you hehe , how is your day after all ? "

her response was "ha! rum makes me chatty and the conversation can be interesting ...my day has been very busy! hope you are not having to walk on the rain "

which was fairly good " i think " I was in... so what do you think of that I can just chat about that her day a bit and then just be like hey wanna have some fun i'm free on friday night bring your friends and lets grab a drink! what do you think?!
Author:  In$tinct [ Mon Apr 30, 2012 10:02 am ]
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cool man thanks so i'll sum up what I understood from you ...

the least amount of texts to set up day 2
Pretty much yes...
the short texts from her are more like " fuck off " or test you if she does text other stuff you can try and keep going or it's more likely not to worth wasting time and more on

Well... if she texts fuck off, that's pretty obvious...

and don't just test her once or two and then try to set up = too pushy around 4 - five would be good

Don't think like this... It can vary. You should stop testing her when she is beginning to buy into your frame

the first text should be more like "you are not gonna believe what just happened "

Or anything else that is not some boring shit every other dude does...

well thats what I used in the last three girls I got numbers from before those and I tried to do that .. I say hey( give her a name like shorty or little or something) , it's was nice meeting you and ( something fun or interesting happen with her or we talked about usually fun ones ) and then ask ask her how is your day after all ?

It's risky, because it's casual... can work though

exmaples : " hey kansas girl , it's was nice meeting you and gossiping country people with you hehe , how is your day after all ? "

Yeah... this is the most regular text message possible... you were lucky to get a response

her response was "ha! rum makes me chatty and the conversation can be interesting ...my day has been very busy! hope you are not having to walk on the rain "

She expresses some empathy here, which is good...

which was fairly good " i think " I was in... so what do you think of that I can just chat about that her day a bit and then just be like hey wanna have some fun i'm free on friday night bring your friends and lets grab a drink! what do you think?!

Definitely don't chat about her day. Stand out, man! If she's hot there're probably 2 other guys who sends her texts like that. You must make her feel that you're the shit. Keep it funny in the texts... even if you're talking about her day, you should be working towards a meet up in every single text

Example: She says she was at the grocery. You're not like "What did you buy?" You should say something interesting like "Sounds fun. I was with a friend walking his dog and the funniest shit ever happened. I will tell you later but not in text because it's a long story" See? You should subtly give her reasons to invest in you.
Author:  Fazz [ Tue May 01, 2012 9:53 am ]
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[quote="In$tinct"][quote="Fazz"]


Don't think like this... It can vary. You should stop testing her when she is beginning to buy into your frame

can you explain a bit about how she could buy into my frame?

the first text should be more like "you are not gonna believe what just happened "

Or anything else that is not some boring shit every other dude does...
can you put like some more examples about this





well thats what I used in the last three girls I got numbers from before those and I tried to do that .. I say hey( give her a name like shorty or little or something) , it's was nice meeting you and ( something fun or interesting happen with her or we talked about usually fun ones ) and then ask ask her how is your day after all ?

It's risky, because it's casual... can work though

that's pretty much what I understood from (Adam lyons online lecture about texting ... ok i won't do it again



exmaples : " hey kansas girl , it's was nice meeting you and gossiping country people with you hehe , how is your day after all ? "

Yeah... this is the most regular text message possible... you were lucky to get a response



her response was "ha! rum makes me chatty and the conversation can be interesting ...my day has been very busy! hope you are not having to walk on the rain "

She expresses some empathy here, which is good...

which was fairly good " i think " I was in... so what do you think of that I can just chat about that her day a bit and then just be like hey wanna have some fun i'm free on friday night bring your friends and lets grab a drink! what do you think?!

Definitely don't chat about her day. Stand out, man! If she's hot there're probably 2 other guys who sends her texts like that. You must make her feel that you're the shit. Keep it funny in the texts... even if you're talking about her day, you should be working towards a meet up in every single text

ok but if i tell her that "hey , you are not gonna believe what happen to me today ...and she says like who is this or what happened ? .. the answers would be ?? to who is this ? .... and we were playing bowling and the funniest thing happened ... I it's a long story i'll tell you later ..here since there is no question she wouldn't probably say anything other that ok or some dump answers like that so I should ask about something and this would be her day or how is she been something to keep it going right ?

Example: She says she was at the grocery. You're not like "What did you buy?" You should say something interesting like "Sounds fun. I was with a friend walking his dog and the funniest shit ever happened. I will tell you later but not in text because it's a long story" See? You should subtly give her reasons to invest in you.

yeah that's nice but I would think of like her response with yours would be the same dump thing like ok or , haha alight something like that .. and it seem to me i would be too pushy if i ask her to meet up right after that which would be 2 or 3 text right ?
Author:  In$tinct [ Tue May 01, 2012 10:44 pm ]
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can you put like some more examples about this
"Hey... I'm planning to do a bank robbery. We need a driver. Are you in?"

"We need to talk..." (I love this one)

"It's your lucky day, I just thought about you."
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ok but if i tell her that "hey , you are not gonna believe what happen to me today ...and she says like who is this or what happened ? .. the answers would be ?? to who is this ? .... and we were playing bowling and the funniest thing happened ... I it's a long story i'll tell you later ..here since there is no question she wouldn't probably say anything other that ok or some dump answers like that so I should ask about something and this would be her day or how is she been something to keep it going right ?
I really try avoiding questions when I text. "How was your day?" can work once, but you really need to start moving the conversation. You should also keep the ace of not telling her "that super funny thing" that happened because it makes her curious. Women's curiousity is our best friend.

For that who's this thing... When I give a woman my number, I usually tell her to attach a name she would remember... like "The hot guy from the club" or something like that. Anything... that will make sure she will know who sent her the text...

For the answers like "okay" and such... "I'll only tell you if you be nice. Are you a good girl?" It's flirty...
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and it seem to me i would be too pushy if i ask her to meet up right after that which would be 2 or 3 text right ?
It's not the amount of texts... it's the time that she spends thinking about you. That's why, when you spark her interest with such texts, when she responds, you should wait a little... Not too much...but some time, as you feel. This also depends on how fast she replied to your text.

And you can always flirt while texting. But you would need some experience and good nose for feeling when the flirting is at a high point. Because that's when you ask her about a meet-up.

As I've said, my "text game" consists of hardly anything else than getting day 2s with the girls I at least kiss-closed. So I really won't say that what Adam Lyons said is wrong. I can see that being this pushy with a girl while you only have her number and nothing else happened can backfire.

But what I do know about game, and this applies to game generally, so it must apply to texting too... If you don't move things forward, nothing will happen. Understand that if she's interested in you, she will be happy to meet you no matter when you ask her about it!
Author:  Fazz [ Sat May 05, 2012 8:51 am ]
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can you put like some more examples about this
"Hey... I'm planning to do a bank robbery. We need a driver. Are you in?"
I like this one but I'm don't expirence in role play so I may fuck it up !!
"We need to talk..." (I love this one)

"It's your lucky day, I just thought about you."
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ok but if i tell her that "hey , you are not gonna believe what happen to me today ...and she says like who is this or what happened ? .. the answers would be ?? to who is this ? .... and we were playing bowling and the funniest thing happened ... I it's a long story i'll tell you later ..here since there is no question she wouldn't probably say anything other that ok or some dump answers like that so I should ask about something and this would be her day or how is she been something to keep it going right ?
I really try avoiding questions when I text. "How was your day?" can work once, but you really need to start moving the conversation. You should also keep the ace of not telling her "that super funny thing" that happened because it makes her curious. Women's curiousity is our best friend.

ok I wouldn't ask about it but what what should I talk to her about which would lead to such thing? ( day 2 )

For that who's this thing... When I give a woman my number, I usually tell her to attach a name she would remember... like "The hot guy from the club" or something like that. Anything... that will make sure she will know who sent her the text...
I usually text them right away save it as Mr. Handsome!

For the answers like "okay" and such... "I'll only tell you if you be nice. Are you a good girl?" It's flirty...

I think I got what you mean here !! i'll try it out
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and it seem to me i would be too pushy if i ask her to meet up right after that which would be 2 or 3 text right ?
It's not the amount of texts... it's the time that she spends thinking about you. That's why, when you spark her interest with such texts, when she responds, you should wait a little... Not too much...but some time, as you feel. This also depends on how fast she replied to your text.

And you can always flirt while texting. But you would need some experience and good nose for feeling when the flirting is at a high point. Because that's when you ask her about a meet-up.

As I've said, my "text game" consists of hardly anything else than getting day 2s with the girls I at least kiss-closed. So I really won't say that what Adam Lyons said is wrong. I can see that being this pushy with a girl while you only have her number and nothing else happened can backfire.
yeah I understand i'm just been looking ALOT for something related to text game but no one made a good sense to me so I would try anything .. so it's not about Adam or anyone else ...
But what I do know about game, and this applies to game generally, so it must apply to texting too... If you don't move things forward, nothing will happen. Understand that if she's interested in you, she will be happy to meet you no matter when you ask her about it!

yeah you are right but i'm confuesd about this case #1 .... the girl was REALLY into me but I after I got her number when went to get drinks and the Stupid bartender gave me wrong one which made me so uncomroftalbe so I left despite that she seemed like she wanted me to stay !! ...but after I got her number I texted her a while ago as you told me .... " hey you are not gonna believe what happened to me today ! .... she replied who is this ! .... I told her the person who got a headache because of the wrong drink they other day ... she replied "huh ha " I said laughing because I got a headache ? Thanks! .... she replied the weirdest thing ever !! .... she said exactly this " she woeks at umis tonight duh" I got so confused at replied confused and she never reply after that ... so what should I do ? I'm sure that i'm gonna see her again because we are in a college town so it's pretty small what what should I do when I see her and should I try again later "next week is finals week so a week from now minimum to text and I may ran into her if I got out tomorrow so what do you think buddy?
Author:  In$tinct [ Sat May 05, 2012 4:16 pm ]
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ok I wouldn't ask about it but what what should I talk to her about which would lead to such thing?
You must find something to do that you both like. Anything... like wall-climbing, or playing pool, or going to soccer match, or swimming.
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yeah I understand i'm just been looking ALOT for something related to text game but no one made a good sense to me so I would try anything .. so it's not about Adam or anyone else ...
I know...There's basically no good material on texting. But that's not a coincidence. Texting sucks. That's why I exclude it from my game as much as I can.
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I got so confused at replied confused and she never reply after that ... so what should I do ? I'm sure that i'm gonna see her again because we are in a college town so it's pretty small what what should I do when I see her and should I try again later "next week is finals week so a week from now minimum to text and I may ran into her if I got out tomorrow so what do you think buddy?
Honestly, if I were you I would have moved to the next girl ages ago. So what if you see her? As far as I remember nothing happened between the two of you...
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