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Author:  kkkkl [ Sun Apr 29, 2012 12:49 am ]
Post subject:  Can't believe I messed this up up man!
Hi guys, this post is about how to reconnect with a girl 2nd time we met.

I met her 1st day in a part-time class I'm taking. Had great conversation, walked home together and established some verbal kino.

Some of the exchange of words:

Her : I like Boston (where she's from) so much more than LA! It's so different!
Me: Really, so you like cold weather and big parties here, right?
Her: lol...

Later:
Her: I might be going back to LA for work later this year.
Me: Now you're liking LA more!

Left without trying to get her number since we're meeting 2nd time. So 2nd time I came into the class with the expectation of re-escalating the kino with her.

I passed by when she was talking with a friend, and she looked up, rolled her eyes at me, which I thought was an IOI. But I wanted to avoid seeming to be very into her, so I just ignored and walked away.

During lunch break, I was sitting far from her, but I cold joked to her about her project:
Me: So when can we taste your XXX
Her: I had facebook page check it out lol..

Another guy run to her to get the name of her page, but I didn't want to seem to eager so I just stayed in the chair...

End of day I approached her and a friend and asked if they wanted to walk together, they ended up dragging feet with a bunch of another friends.

I joined their conversation, talked to her and her friends, and finally the friend was leaving so we got going. But she was walking in the front, and I walked behind with her friend. Then the most awkward moment happened:

Her friend run into the female bathroom on the way...I waited for 30 secs and was like "wtf..." so I had to catch up with her in the front. But when we walked outside the building she got on a phone call out immediately. I kept silent for a while on the way and she said bye.

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I always got this problem of reconnection with a girl in a group in 2nd meeting. I think the reason is that I don't want to seem needy by ignoring others, but also I feel I should go straight to conversation with the girl since we sorta "knew" each other from before.

What do you guys think? Any tips on avoid this?
Author:  Leo-Jed [ Tue May 01, 2012 5:46 pm ]
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"walked home together and established some verbal kino"

What is verbal kino?
Author:  t0night [ Tue May 01, 2012 8:34 pm ]
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"walked home together and established some verbal kino"

What is verbal kino?
It's where you tell the girl how much you're going to touch her, but never do. :lol:
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I passed by when she was talking with a friend, and she looked up, rolled her eyes at me, which I thought was an IOI.
Need to specify this "eye rolling" she did. Was it dismissive or playful? If it's the latter, then yes, it was an IOI. If not, then it was a IOD.
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I joined their conversation, talked to her and her friends, and finally the friend was leaving so we got going. But she was walking in the front, and I walked behind with her friend. Then the most awkward moment happened:

Her friend run into the female bathroom on the way...I waited for 30 secs and was like "wtf..." so I had to catch up with her in the front. But when we walked outside the building she got on a phone call out immediately. I kept silent for a while on the way and she said bye.
Let me get this straight, she's in front of her friend who is in front of you, right? I would've made my exit then and there. In this scenario, it looks like your girl is distancing herself from you. The immediate cell phone whip out as her friend went into the bathroom was a bit convenient and coincidence.

At this point, it sounds like she's not that interested in you. I'm sure there's some interest (as a friend, maybe?). If you haven't number closed yet, here's what I'd say to gauge her interest level in me.

Me: Hey, I'm going to meet up with some friends this evening at XYZ billiards for a quick drink. Wanna tag along?

If she's interested in you and refuses, she'll offer another time. In which, you do a number close. If she's not interested in you, she'll flat out say NO. Doesn't matter her excuse, be it she has to do some hardcore studying or her cat needs flossing, she will not offer any future references. Good luck!
Author:  NikAFC [ Tue May 01, 2012 8:35 pm ]
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Oh my god. VERBAL KINO?!? Some people on this forum need serious help
Author:  Slip n Slide [ Wed May 02, 2012 2:38 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Can't believe I messed this up up man!
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But I wanted to avoid seeming to be very into her, so I just ignored and walked away.
I think this is the greatest misconception in all of pick up.

Why do guys think they're supposed to "play it cool" or whatever?

When you see something you think is an IOI, thats your cue to JUMP ON IT. GO! ESCALATE! TOUCH HER (and not just verbally!)

I see no chance with this girl. She has no idea you're interested. Look for another girl and show her straight away what you want (SEX).

Don't TELL her you want sex. SHOW her you want sex. Look up the definition of kino and get it going.
Author:  killermunkyz [ Wed May 02, 2012 4:53 am ]
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Oh my god. VERBAL KINO?!? Some people on this forum need serious help
LOL! That is fucked up. Even if it was possible... WHY? You're already talking to her all night! Fucking touch her already! You want to. She wants you to. What are you waiting for! lol I about fell out of my chair!

No touch=No sex... get it through your head.
Author:  CaptainJackHarkness [ Wed May 02, 2012 6:40 am ]
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Lol...verbal kino.

Damn this topic is fucking pure AFC gold. That's like saying we had Verbal Sex

:lol:
Author:  kkkkl [ Thu May 03, 2012 11:13 pm ]
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lol thanks guys. I'm actually pretty bad at this sort of situation, just because I don't want to let others in the class be like "oh he's into that girl". I usually get laid with ones I met outside class and work etc.
Author:  killermunkyz [ Thu May 03, 2012 11:33 pm ]
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lol thanks guys. I'm actually pretty bad at this sort of situation, just because I don't want to let others in the class be like "oh he's into that girl". I usually get laid with ones I met outside class and work etc.
I remember those days, so I feel your pain, but seriously, fuck what they think. Do what you want. The more you care what people think, the less you get laid. Work on your inner game. At least then you will be the guy with the balls in the class to talk to her. Fuck what they think. If anything they might be jealous, and the girls will be envious... Of her.
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