You shouldn't get upset or look influenced when a girl mentions another guy. I think it's kind of a shit test but not always. Girls like talking about relationships.
I had it happened to me while gaming a girl. She mentioned her ex. And when I started having convo about it she said we shouldn't be talking about that but I insisted and said I like these type of convos.
Actually you should instead use it as your advantage. I was talking about relationships in general and then said that I have came out of a long one and then used some shock and awe and she was literally shocked and surprised. After that escalation wasn't a problem anymore and I ended up sleeping with her that same and It was her who wanted to come back to my place
I suppose if you're not looking for a snl qualify her by saying I dated a girl just like you. We had great time but she was *and you insert something you don't want her to do*. Works like a charm.
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