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Author:  MrMatt [ Wed Apr 25, 2012 3:45 pm ]
Post subject:  Fucking your girl like an animal
Hello everyone,

First of all, there may or may not be already a thread on this subject, but I didn't find any. So here it is.

You approached your girl at the club or in the streets, started flirting with her, took her number and eventually kissed her... After a while, it's time to fuck close her, I know a lot of people on this forum seems to have issues with sealing the deal, but I still hope that some doesn't!

In my opinion, we all have a different style of fucking. Some are more passionate, some are more beastly, etc... You see my point. Personally, I see my self as a passionate guy when it comes to f-closing but with a touch of dominance.

But lately, I've been seeing this cute blond girl and I will probably end up in a relationship with her, to say the least. We've been keeping our conversations sexual and for some reason, she always like to tell me what she likes in bed. Which is, you probably already guessed by now, the opposite of what I normally am.

Here's a couple of things she told me:
I want to be controlled,
Pull my hair hard,
I want you to hurt me,
go the further you can,
Tear my dress,
grab me by my throat,
bite me, please be hard with me,
Push me against a wall, throw me on the bed,

and etc...

Except for the hair pulling (which I'm not even comfortable with yet), I pretty much never did any of these with the girls I fucked. And just like anyone who is new to something, I might screw when it comes to calibration. From what I see, she doesn't want me to control myself at all and be the most brutal I could be, but let's keep in mind that I am a 6 foot 3, 200 pound male, and that I could actually hurt her by accident, which I don't really want to happen.

So here is my question for you guys, how do you usually fuck like a brutal beast? Do you have anything in particular that you love doing and gets the girl crazy? What do you usually say when you dirty talk with her and, about the biting... I guess/hope she didn't want me to actually bite her for real, meh?

Please, I'm looking for real answers, from personal experience... Not some KJ talking about stuff they saw on internet.

Thank you, I appreciate!
Author:  MrBundy [ Wed Apr 25, 2012 4:00 pm ]
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Having been with a girl who's into the rough stuff, the key here when you're a big guy (6'2, 230lbs roughly. I weigh in stone so I'm not sure) is escalation and progression.

A woman during sex in my experience is not afraid to tell you when enough is enough. If you pull her hair that bit too hard, she'll let you know. So just go with the flow and build up. First, just take a fist full of her hair and pull tighter and tighter. When you're slamming her up against the wall and sinking your teeth into her neck, do it like you're trying to slam a door that will bounce back if it pushes shut and start nibbling, then strengthen the bite until she's got blood squirting out of her neck or she tells you to stop.

As for actually getting comfortable with it? There's not much I can do about that, just let you know that it's a perfectly common thing for women to like sexually aggressive men. If you've spent all this time convincing her you're some rough and tumble dominant alpha of high status, then she'll imagine that you're the same in bed.
Author:  MrMatt [ Wed Apr 25, 2012 9:36 pm ]
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Having been with a girl who's into the rough stuff, the key here when you're a big guy (6'2, 230lbs roughly. I weigh in stone so I'm not sure) is escalation and progression.

A woman during sex in my experience is not afraid to tell you when enough is enough. If you pull her hair that bit too hard, she'll let you know. So just go with the flow and build up. First, just take a fist full of her hair and pull tighter and tighter. When you're slamming her up against the wall and sinking your teeth into her neck, do it like you're trying to slam a door that will bounce back if it pushes shut and start nibbling, then strengthen the bite until she's got blood squirting out of her neck or she tells you to stop.

As for actually getting comfortable with it? There's not much I can do about that, just let you know that it's a perfectly common thing for women to like sexually aggressive men. If you've spent all this time convincing her you're some rough and tumble dominant alpha of high status, then she'll imagine that you're the same in bed.
Thank you for your response, it was exactly what kind of answer I was looking for!
Author:  aliliaquat [ Thu Apr 26, 2012 7:58 am ]
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very interesting topic...
Author:  MrMatt [ Fri Apr 27, 2012 2:16 am ]
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very interesting topic...
I know, and this is why I would like to know if any other guys use it and if there's something that they really like to do to their girl!

Looking forward to it!
Author:  870 [ Fri Apr 27, 2012 2:41 am ]
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When I was 16, I dated a girl who wanted it as rough as possible, and no matter how rough I gave it to her, she always wanted it harsher or with greater intensity. It eventually culminated in her asking me to hold a kitchen knife to her throat while we made love, which needless to say, was both eye-opening and terrifying at my age.

Honestly, all I could think about was how on Earth I could ever hope to explain what we were doing if her parents walked in, and even though I now realize her desires were pretty vanilla, at the time I found it a little off-putting. As you might expect, the relationship ended shortly thereafter.

The point of this story is that people who have completely opposite ideas of what sex should be like typically don't make very good partners, and if you are uncomfortable or apprehensive about participating in any of the carnal acrobatics that she says make her hot, the sex will ultimately be disappointing and unsatisfying for both parties.

Of course, on the off chance that her descriptions of the fantasies she most desires turn you on despite your lack of experience in that realm, my advice is to go for it and let instinct - and careful attention to her responses - lead the way.

Your boy,
870
Author:  Roaker1 [ Fri Apr 27, 2012 5:21 am ]
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Idk if they guess above me answered ur question but
rough sex is what im good at ;-) at first ur like uhhh should i slap her ass and have her call me daddy? . Just try it different things while ur doing it amd see how she reaponds. Of course dont be a jack ass amd leave her with a black eye if she ask u to slap her. Be rough but gentle. Trust man if u try this route its some grade A sex.
Author:  ganon [ Sat May 05, 2012 9:54 pm ]
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3 weeks ago I began seeing the kinkiest girl I've ever been with so I have some fresh thoughts on this.

This girl is pretty awesome; she's crazy and fun to hang out with even nonsexually, and we had an epic first date (10 hours, 4 locations, blowjob + vaginal twice + anal + anal to mouth). Every get together has been very sexual but we still have a great time doing other stuff.

She's very similar to OP's girl. Loves having her hair pulled, being pinned down, tied with scarves or duct tape, etc. She likes to use her laptop webcam to make videos of us, and masturbate to when I'm not around. She likes to pretend I'm raping her. She likes to struggle and try to get away so that I'll grab her and pin her down and resume screwing her. She orgasms like crazy (every 3-5 minutes when I'm really in the zone) and can orgasm from anal.

My advice is 'just go with it'. Even if you don't love it - there will be some other guys out there who do, and you'll get AMOGed. Just avoid anything that could result in injury or get you in legal trouble (I agree with 870 that I would never do the kitchen knife idea; too much chance of an accident, or getting in deep crap if you get walked in on. A plastic fake Halloween knife would be good tho.) Don't roleplay rape if anyone might overhear. Careful about leaving visible bruises, esp. if you don't trust her not to cry rape later.

Also, you may not be into it now, but will get into it. The first time I ever tied up a girl, with scarves, I wasn't even hard b/c I just felt so nervous and 'weird'. But then I warmed up to it. You will too. Try to put yourself in a mindset of you're doing what YOU want, not what SHE wants...b/c I guarantee you that what a chick, especially a chick like this, really wants, is to know you are being dominant and doing what you want.

The kiss of death is feeling intimidated. This is the opposite of what such a girl wants (and will kill hardons). You have to 'own it'.

No half measures. Slapping her ass and acting nervous about it will be arousal-killing to her and look beta. If you just can't do something well and she's begging for it, then play it like you're pacing or denying her (e.g. 'Now be a good girl and suck it and daddy just might give you X later..')

She's an EMT. One of the other kinkiest girls I saw was also an EMT. I have heard a theory that girls in the medical profession tend to be very horny, maybe it's seeing the 'life is short, enjoy it while you can' cliches on the job. Maybe the Grey's Anatomy Supply Closet o' Constant Sex is not that far off.
Author:  Wolf1989 [ Sun May 06, 2012 7:40 am ]
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Hey man :)

I just read your question, and im in a simillar situation with my new gf. But here's what i tried out with her and i got her screaming for more. She is a "daddy's" little girl, but in bed, man she likes it rough. She likes spanking..when i first tried it i was sorry how hard i hit her :) but she only got wetter...best advice i can give you keep it up and escaleta slowly until she tells you to stop...in my previous experiences i noticed that this type of girls like to see it your eyes...that you want her..so i try to keep as much eye contact as i can with a little smirk...i try to lead her and until now it has worked well for me...so my advice is be dominant,confident and lead her...:)

Sorry for my englis it's not the best :)

All the best man
Author:  Kasango [ Sun May 06, 2012 8:27 am ]
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I had a girl who loved the rape fantasy, I used to put my hand over her mouth to muffle her screams! She told me she had actually been raped by her uncle which is horrible, yet she loved the fantasy of being raped, really weird.

I didn't find out till ten years later that one of the reasons she left me was because I wouldn't fuck her up the arse, which consequently is exactly what her uncle supposedly did when he raped her.

VERY VERY STRANGE!

Women can be strange.
Author:  clinkz [ Sun May 06, 2012 8:32 am ]
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omg i'm so jealous,

i've only ever hard girls that like one or two thing from that list but not all in one lolz
Author:  oldskoolpunk [ Thu Aug 09, 2012 7:02 pm ]
Post subject:  Fucking your girl like an animal
It's great if she can handle it.

It's a fantasy for most women, which is why they buy Harlequin Romances. Many of them can't handle the reality. It takes a women with some toughness. Does she go to a gym? Has she ever been into any rough sport? If you roughhouse with her a little, can she fight back? Find out.

I've known horsewomen, martial artists, and a Harley rider who were into rough sex and could take it. Then it's great. It's the ones who say "I've always fantasized about..." that you want to avoid.
Author:  TheSeagull [ Thu Aug 09, 2012 7:20 pm ]
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I would be very weirded out by the kitchen knife thing..
but other than that it all seems pretty legit stuff.
pulling a girl's hair is the oldest trick in the book :wink:
as for the rest, except for the bondage, it's all pretty vanilla stuff that girls love (and most guys probably love it too.. personally, I like it a lot)

I think I would love the dress tearing but have not gotten to it yet.. hopefully I won't have to buy a new dress if I ever do.

as for spanking, have her do doggy and hit her ass.. it's hot, I promise

if you're not comfortable with tying up your partner, just don't do it.. but I would give it a try.. 'nuff said :twisted:
Author:  Heywood Jablowme [ Thu Aug 09, 2012 8:02 pm ]
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Try dripping hot candle wax...she'll love it
Author:  oldskoolpunk [ Thu Aug 09, 2012 8:03 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Fucking your girl like an animal
I can't resist. Here's a fun rough sex scene, from foreplay to the end. This is mutual rough sex, which is rare in porno. Vandal Vyxen plays as rough as her guy does.
http://www.thisav.com/video/8014/-gabri ... h-sex.html
(yes, popups, ads, but bypass those.)

Vandal Vyxen is a well known performance artist from Montreal. She can put a lot more drama into a scene than most porno actors. Show this to women; if it turns them on, you've really got something.
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