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Author:  TheOnlyTaylorEver [ Tue Apr 17, 2012 6:02 am ]
Post subject:  Is it flaking when they "reschedule"?
I met a HB on facebook, hung out with her once. Kissed closed, tried to hang out with her again on friday, but over-gamed her and she flaked. After that, I didn't call or text her for a couple days, then she texted me saying "sorry i never texted you back, I went camping." I said "No problem, I ended up going to a show anyway. Lets chill tomorrow." She agreed.

Then tomorrow came and she said "I'm swamped with homework, another reschedule? :/ maybe like this weekend." So I told her "Come over sunday and you can come to practice." I'm a lead vocalist in a band. She said she'd "love to come watch :D".

Now my questions are, is rescheduling flaking? And do you guys think she will flake on sunday?
Author:  titanman [ Tue Apr 17, 2012 11:48 am ]
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No. Especially if they suggest another day then it's all good.

But if you have to reschedule many times and you feel like she isn't that interested in another day then forget it.
Author:  dlightmen [ Wed Apr 18, 2012 2:02 am ]
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IT can be a sign of flaking, but not always.. For now, just go with it.

I always assume a reschedule is that, a reschedule. More than once and I'd lose interest pretty quickly.
Author:  CaptainJackHarkness [ Wed Apr 18, 2012 2:07 am ]
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I would write back to her "That's fine...but you might lose me :P."
Author:  pumpington [ Wed Apr 18, 2012 8:54 am ]
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yes this girl is flaking on you

she is not rescheduling, you are, and she is flaking, just stop inviting her out or flake on her back

make yourself more valuable and less available,

for example:

her:I'm swamped with homework, another reschedule? :/ maybe like this weekend.
you:homework? =='' that sucks, sure we can reschedule sometime, but i'm sort of busy this week, maybe I'll hit you up tommorow

then leave it at that and stop sniffing her ass for a while, and don't message her the next day, let her put some effort into it, and move onto different hobbies, or look for another girl in the mean time, don't put up with that sort of stuff, it is not worth getting shit on all the time for low priority type stuff

after a good week or so, just get a hold of her like nothing happened and invite her out like normal, for every flake you get, back off, if you get 3 in a row, that is a good sign of a pattern and you might as well leave it be, no point in chasing something that runs
Author:  Wheels88 [ Fri Apr 27, 2012 7:20 am ]
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Pumpington is right, I mean i dont understand too much the dating or the game scene. so i think before I read Pumpingtons answer I would have gone on my own way looking for more women, how ever after reading Pumpingtons answer he puts it in a way where you make the girl chase you to see if she is interested and see if there are any patterns.
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