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Author:  WorserGeorge [ Sun Apr 15, 2012 7:47 pm ]
Post subject:  Drunk girl in social group I rejected
So basicly there's a girl in my social group that I've been texting and flirting with for about week, so last tuesday we had a little gathering at a friends house we were playing drinking games so we got pretty drunk.

at 12 she decides to go outside to get some air, I go out in join her, she's pretty drunk at this point, so we talked a little, then after about 5mins i got for the kiss we start making out, then she pulls back and says "you're such a player" (this gets repeating 10 of 15 times... ¬_¬) we made out some more, then the question "why are you kissing me" came out, I was pretty stumped by this question, so i just said "because I want too" she kept asking so I said something lame like "because your beautiful and you have an awesome personality" she thought the personality bit was really good and continued to say that we'd be good togather because we both have similer personalitys.

now she's not feeling to good for obvious reasons (ha) so i look after he, get her water, hold her hair back whens she being sick, wipe her mouth etc.... then i put her to bed at her mates room, she wants me to get in to spoon, so i get in, we hug, then snog, i start fingering her, she then asks me to get a condom i say this aint happening because you're to drunk and you've just been sick, this is when she tells me I can do anything to her, she starts basicly having a go at me to get hard and then said this happened to the last guy and then called me a pussy (when she said this i was hard as a rock... NOT ha) at that point i just walked out the room, and carried on drinking with everyone else, when every went to bed i snuck back in with her and slept next to her, in the morning i made her tea and toast and then went home....

now she just seems to be off with me, everyone else says she's not but only you can tell if someones off with you, i've invited her round a few times doesn't seem to be interested, did I do something wrong, or did I miss my chance by being the nice guy.... any advice would be helpful because I quite like the girl, and i'm sorry, but i'm not good at writing.

One more thing I am the alpha male in the social group, i organise everything it does and everyone listens to me etc if thats useful.
Author:  VodkaHaze [ Wed Apr 18, 2012 2:44 pm ]
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I feel like you should just go with either end of the spectrum there:

1) fuck and claim you were drunk too (it "just happened")

2) put her in bed and walk out right away

Doing the in between you were a tease to her and probably made it really awkward. In a sense, you killed the sexual tension without having sex.
Author:  WorserGeorge [ Wed Apr 18, 2012 9:27 pm ]
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completely right ha, is there any way back from this?

I have been freezing her out for a couple days while I've been ill and I text her today, the texts went as followed
Day 1

no texts

Day2

HB7: How you feeling
Author:  WorserGeorge [ Wed Apr 18, 2012 9:57 pm ]
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day 3

HB7: oiiii you feeling better? x

ME: Hey, nope... cld really use a nurse to look after me ;) hw u feeling

HB7: hahahaha same! feeling shit :'( you out friday and saturday? x

ME: I'm sure ill get invited out, but might just stay in and hve a smoke this weekend, wht about u

HB7: haha cool! Do I get noo kisses heartless man who is ill! ;P fair enough doing clubbing:P x

ME: I like todo my kisses in person ;) .. sounds fun, u enjoy your self jon (nickname) :P


She was replying minutes after texts until that last one... I don't think its that bad...
Author:  RetiredRodeo [ Wed Apr 18, 2012 11:55 pm ]
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Dude, I think you did the right thing.

She's battling her own demons - wondering why you're such a nice guy, or that she's NOT desireable. Either way - let her sweat.

I never fuck a chick THAT drunk. I want them to remember, so props for that. That DHVs yourself to her.

I say let it chill for a couple days, then text her.

If she texts you before that, keep it light. Don't bring up the other night. Don't tell her you're sick in a text - ever. Always keep your texts light, random, funny, cocky, edgy, sexual! Always put her in the mindset that your texts are always upbeat - she'll look forward to them then.

I think you're still in the game here. Just relax and let it marinate......

RR
Author:  WorserGeorge [ Thu Apr 19, 2012 12:19 am ]
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Great advise, cheers mate!

tbh I think I've been a little too nice, I was expecting her to be into me more after that night.. but she seems more distant and doesn't seem to want to hang out anymore.

I think she's embarrassed, because i asked what she told her friends and they said she just said that you lot did everything apart from sex, she missed out what was said etc.

So do you suggest I just be distant as well, because going direct styley doesn't seem to be working at all...

EDIT:

and if I've DHV then why does it feel like shes lost a bit of respect for me, like she would normally find everything I say funny now she doesn't, she seems to give me a look that is saying "what a dick head" when ever I do a joke ha
Author:  RetiredRodeo [ Thu Apr 19, 2012 12:47 am ]
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I'd play it cool.

Step back... If she thinks that way - you may be able to isolate her later on and explain that you wnated to do nothing more but ravage her - but you also wnated her sober to remember it...

Just let it ease off for a while and circle back on it in a week.

In the mean time, sarge other women....
Author:  WorserGeorge [ Thu Apr 19, 2012 1:04 am ]
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Ok, Will Do.

We go out a lot together, so shld I get on other chicks around her?
Author:  RetiredRodeo [ Thu Apr 19, 2012 2:06 am ]
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Quote:
Ok, Will Do.

We go out a lot together, so shld I get on other chicks around her?

Hmmm... tough call. Do what your gut says.

I can't really give you a frame of reference. I've never ran with a circle of girls in which I was sarging one...

I hope others can jump in - and I'm cheering from you man!

Good luck!

RR
Author:  WorserGeorge [ Fri Apr 20, 2012 1:57 am ]
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Yeah, cheers for the help bro! hopefully some other people will jump in too!

She text me again today asking if I was going to the pub tomorrow, dno why shes asking me seeing as i've already told her what i'm doing, I couldn't be arsed to reply.
Author:  WorserGeorge [ Wed Apr 25, 2012 11:13 pm ]
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I think its only fair to keep you updated seeing as you gave me all the advice.

I made loads of mistakes these last few days, mainly because I'm finding it hard to know how to game a chick in my own social group.

Ok, so I blanked her for about half a week while I was ill, and she's quite close with my neighbour, so she was asking him "If I was ok and if I was pissed off with her" and then on the friday she sent me a text saying "Hey darling come to the pub tonight! :) :) XXX Please! :)
Author:  WorserGeorge [ Wed Apr 25, 2012 11:15 pm ]
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How come not all of my post will send?
Author:  WorserGeorge [ Thu May 10, 2012 10:06 pm ]
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update

F-Closed and now seeing her ;)
Author:  RetiredRodeo [ Thu May 10, 2012 11:19 pm ]
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Quote:
update

F-Closed and now seeing her ;)

Love it when a plan comes together!

You're the man!

RR
Author:  WorserGeorge [ Thu May 10, 2012 11:39 pm ]
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ha cheers for the advise mate

dnt really want a gf, but ill see how things go i suppose
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