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Author:	LusciousFox [ Tue Apr 10, 2012 8:54 am ]
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I got a girls number and she added me on Facebook. We chatted a bit via text and I tried some more push/pull where I finished the convo with a compliment, I probably shouldn't have but she was CONSTANTLY seeking rapport with me and agreeing with everything I said, omg I like X too! , etc. If I'm going to take things to the next level and avoid the friend zone I need to be sexual. She's a little shy and lives about 30 mins away from where I live so setting up a date will be a 'little' difficult. We would either have to meet in her hometown where I work or I play text game some more. Can I make my text game more sexual now? Here are some examples I've used already. eg1, " If you're trying to get me to imagine you in bed it's not going to work. I have special training to resist your tricks" eg2, Her: Haha when I first started reading that message I was like do I want to be reading this, I so don't have a dirty mind Me: You so DO have a dirty mind! The other option is to do a day2 after I finish work in the afternoon and we hang out. This way I can Kino her a bit more. What do you think guys?

Author:	pumpington [ Tue Apr 10, 2012 10:13 am ]
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you can do what you want, but really I think it is better to mostly use texting and the phone as a bridge to another meetup in a person, if you just walked up to her, gave her a compliment, then talked to her for 2 minutes and got her phone number, then sure, probably pretty wise to text with her for a day or two, to try to carry the momentum of the interaction while it is there, so she sees you as more then just a random stranger, but if you have a decent amount of time in with a girl then I think building rapport over the phone often just sets a frame that the two of you are texting buddies and will actually make it more likely that you get stuck in text buddy hell and she starts flaking cause instead of hanging out with you, she can just talk/text you over the phone instead of meeting up with you also you should pay attention to what your girl is saying, when you are getting sexual some girls are very into it, and some are not as comfortable with overt verbal sexuality, asd is a big factor for this, mainly you have to make sure she knows you will be accepting of her sexuality and will not judge her, trying to force her while she has the guard up can turn out bad for you, especially if it is in writing and you can't gauge her body language

Author:	LusciousFox [ Tue Apr 10, 2012 10:28 am ]
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Hey thanks for the reply. We have a decent amount of rapport and I didn't want to text her too much anyway for the resons that you gave, namely getting into a friend zone and using overt sexual texting is a big no no in this situation because she has a 'boyfriend' (doesn't really just some dude in another country added her on fbook and they started chatting) She let me touch her face (incidental, was giving an example of something) so I think taking the date option will be the best way to go because I think she will accept my escelation letting me get her with non verbal pickup.

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