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Author:  Libertine Aim [ Sat Apr 07, 2012 1:16 pm ]
Post subject:  First date - need simple advice

Hey guys,
heres a quickie.
I met a sweet girl at a club - we had good chemestry, laughed, danced and kissed.
I #-closed her, and now we are going on a date in 3 days.
I was wearing a very ugly, cocky, HUGE necklace, that made her approach me.
I'm almost only wearing it when Im out meeting girls.
My question is:
Should I wear it on the date? It's very un-stylish, and make me seem like a fool, but it works damn straight with the girls.
I'm confused if I should wear it on the date or not - I'm afraid that I will seem like a whole other person if I'm not wearing it and she will loose interest in me.
On the other hand if I'm not wearing it I might not seem like a joke and I will feel more like myself.
Note: She was very interested in it, and 50% of the question she asked was about it.
Really need an advice.
//LA

Author:  doclift [ Sat Apr 07, 2012 4:14 pm ]
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Peacock accessories are primarily used to allow a woman to approach you. It gives them something to talk about if they find you attractive. Remember that women of beauty rarely have to open their own sets so they need all the crutches they can get. You're assuming that your prop is indicative of your personality and that's largely incorrect. Club attire does not equal day game attire lol.

Long story short, you're over-thinking it. Leave the necklace at home and have a good time.

You should look a little bit deeper into the interaction. You said that 50% of questions she asked were about this necklace. It sounds like you weren't in control of the set. A good conversationalist can cut threads and begin new ones. Her interest in the necklace displayed a plethora of IOIs. At some point in the interaction, you have to transition from attraction into comfort. Remember that rapport equals trust plus comfort, this is where real game is played.

You're going to be fine. Keep good eye contact, positive body language, and escalate kino.

Oh, and upload a picture of this necklace, I gotta see this thing!!

Author:  Soncheese [ Sat Apr 07, 2012 4:54 pm ]
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i would leave the necklace too you have already approached and she seems interested (hence date 2)

and just use your normal game

but ^^ i agree i wanna see this necklace to!

Soncheese aka swag

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