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Author:  Lebenskunstler [ Mon Mar 26, 2012 8:48 pm ]
Post subject:  HELP! i have a bad feeling about this
I NEED HELP VERRY QUICK so i'm going to keep it simple. I't about arranging a date via text(i'm working on this) There is this verry confusing case i have a bad feeling about.

Background
She's a solid HB8 and 3 years older than me. I met her at a housewarming (via social circle). She's a high enery girl and i attracted her by being verry cool and relaxed (BL/Eye contact) and by ignoring her at the right times. She ended up sneeking into the toilet with me 2 times and the last time i decided to no longer let her wait. We had a verry good make out. I broke it and told her she should get her phone and put my number in it because we can't do this here.

First texts
I would meet her later that week (social circle) and she was testing me out. I remained chill like i was the other day. Afterwards i receifed the first text from her. They were funny/sexual. Then she didn't answer back one of my texts and we lost connection.

Asking her out
So we didn't text for 5 weeks or so. i now text her this.

Me: Heey ###### in eating a verry nice dinner in front of Susan. (Susan is the mutual friend)

She: I'm jealous!! I was eating in the french mountains :) But that's probably not as nice as eating in front of Susan...Give hetr a big hug from me :)

Me: Yes, what a hotty Susan is, she received your hug ;) But to be honest. Didn't speek to you for a while but when are you in the country again? we're going to meet soon

Her: Good morning!:) Do i wake you up? I'm in the country again. Damn the weather is good here! Enjoy! Well see you soon ;-P Xx (notice the XX)

Me: Some weather it is! going to quickly find a beach. are u available an thuesday XX (thats tomorrow)

Her: Are you enjoying the sun?:) Yes i'm available on thuesday. Had something in mind? Xx

Me: Yes, i've been at blablabla beach all day ;) You? Shall we grab a drink at 8 in XXX(my town she lives 40 min of public transfer away). We'll see from there. Going to familly now so sleep well for now XX


Thats it. Got no response for more then a day. So the date is not set. I have this very bad feeling she made up her mind. You might thing i'm paranoid and shouldn't over analyse. But!!!? i've been at this point before resulting in no date.
I'd call the girl with no response
or i would wait for her with no response
Or i'd text her something random with no response
So no date

WHAT SHOULD I DO AT THIS POINT
the date is tomorrow should i call her tonight?/tomorrow?/what time?/text her?/What should i say?/prevent this in the future?/...../
Author:  Heywood Jablowme [ Mon Mar 26, 2012 8:57 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: HELP! i have a bad feeling about this
Quote:
WHAT SHOULD I DO AT THIS POINT
the date is tomorrow should i call her tonight?/tomorrow?/what time?/text her?/What should i say?/prevent this in the future?/...../
Drop the kiddie text bullshit call her and lock it up!
If she does not answer don't leave a voice mail. she has caller ID
She will call you back if interested, if not MOVE ON!
Author:  Lebenskunstler [ Mon Mar 26, 2012 9:47 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: HELP! i have a bad feeling about this
Quote:
Drop the kiddie text bullshit call her and lock it up!
i was duplicating her vibe (not really my vibe)
Quote:
If she does not answer don't leave a voice mail. she has caller ID
She will call you back if interested, if not MOVE ON!
Maybe i was overanalysing. I called her and she took the phone. However im semi satisfied with the result. She did change her mind!!!!

I never thought you'd call! Hu why is that i say laughting? She gives no clear answer. Started with some excuse had no money blablabla. But so nice you called.
I laughed (sacastically)

She: is that funny
Me: hahah it's like you say so glad you called, so now hang up.
She: hahah yeh thats bad.
Me: So tell me;(i pauze)
She: Did i make it up to you well enough? (pause) Sorry i really have no money to come over to you.
Me: we'll ok


She: But you can come over tomorrow.
Me: i act asif i didn't hear it. blablablabla
She: you could come over.
Me: where do you live again?
Her: in XXXX blablabla
me: well ok
Her: seriously you're okay with that
me: Well i can make an exception
Her: Ok, are you sure
Me: lets meet up at 8
Her: ok i'll get you from the station.

I'm semi satisfied. I felt like forcing it out, in stead of her wanting it really bad. Her voice was like she was before. Too secure/hard on me. She is 3 years older/hot but most importantly has a verry verry big social life. And besides i will be there with her room mate. I heard story's about her being an ever higher energy type of girl. They make me disappear into nothing.

WHAT YOU TINK?
hope to close this topic with a layreport
Author:  Slip n Slide [ Mon Mar 26, 2012 10:15 pm ]
Post subject: 
Good luck man. Sounds like you do well when you're actually speaking. Call instead of texting next time.
Author:  Lebenskunstler [ Mon Mar 26, 2012 10:23 pm ]
Post subject: 
Quote:
Good luck man. Sounds like you do well when you're actually speaking. Call instead of texting next time.
Gave me covindence! thnx
Author:  Heywood Jablowme [ Tue Mar 27, 2012 1:09 am ]
Post subject:  Re: HELP! i have a bad feeling about this
Quote:
I called her and she took the phone. However im semi satisfied with the result. She did change her mind!!!
Fantastic Job Bro!

Girls do love to text, it's easy for them to hide emotion.

But you need to call them, once in a while. Out of knowhere works best... 8)

YOU are in controll! you are the one with no fear of rejection!
Author:  Lebenskunstler [ Tue Mar 27, 2012 10:50 am ]
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Ok Guys so the date is tonight.
Before i went to sleep last night i watched my phone (didn't expect any texts) and saw she texted me.

her: Heey Love star! Sorry i can't come to you.. I'd definately like you to come tomorrow so i can give you a tour around %%%%(her town):) Sleep well! xx Ohyeah succes with your roommate ;)

Me: see you tomorrow, sleep well xx

The roommate story is something i forgot to tell but during our phonecall my roomate entered my room. She literally throws herself at me at times. so i came back on the phone and whispered; "i have a stalker"...She said well who is it. It's my roommate i tell her. Well isn't she nice then. I say; "cmon she's my roommate".

This is a geniune DHV story i have and she enteres during my calls to girls all the time. Sooo nice.

But back to her text. She's probably looking forward to it. Problem is i can't lead when i'm in her town. Dunno the places/where to crash. So she'll be leading me... I have no experience with this any tips/suggestions guys.

Oh yeah, i'm not a king with LMR and lost 2 girls (same age as her/equally hot) because of it. Tips are welcome!!!!
Author:  Lebenskunstler [ Wed Mar 28, 2012 6:23 pm ]
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Hhahahahah!!!!!
Here is the lay report viewtopic.php?p=626806#626806
Thnx guys !!!
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