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Author:  mhj [ Thu Mar 22, 2012 4:39 pm ]
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So I went out with this chick for lunch. From the beginning she told she wasn't looking for anything but I though oh well, might just have lunch with her anyways. The lunch was good, I teased her a bit, we had some good laughs, had some good kino, hugged her goodbye. Two days later I text her with a neg which didn't go over too well and now she is ignoring me. Any ideas on how to recover from this one or is this a lost cause?

My text: I asked her if she was pregnant because of a joke we had going during lunch about her ear vein popping out. She said we are done talking!
Author:  doclift [ Thu Mar 22, 2012 6:30 pm ]
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Her text literally said "we are done talking?"
Author:  mhj [ Thu Mar 22, 2012 6:42 pm ]
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yep. I did say I was just messing around...sorry but she didn't bother replying
Author:  Sonicvega [ Thu Mar 22, 2012 6:47 pm ]
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negs in text never pan out very well. You have not control over inflection or tone or pace. Also negs are ment for openers not contiguous negs . Or if your trying to regain the conversation. I would take this as a learning exp and just move on.
Author:  doclift [ Thu Mar 22, 2012 7:05 pm ]
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Agreed, this set is blown. I'm onboard with Sonicvega, negs are used in the initial attraction phase, going backwards from comfort doesn't make sense. Texting is just a means of keeping in contact until you see her again. Real game is done face to face.
Author:  mhj [ Thu Mar 22, 2012 7:17 pm ]
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Sh!t, I liked this chick too. I was thinking letting her calm down for a day or two and then following up but I guess screw it.
Author:  mhj [ Fri Mar 23, 2012 12:04 am ]
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Just heard back from her. She says she is not mad at but just thought it was kind of rude. I think I might be able to save this one. Any ideas on how to proceed?
Author:  Musterion [ Fri Mar 23, 2012 12:06 am ]
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I think I know where you REALLY messed up
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"I did say I was just messing around...sorry"
You are putting the emphasis on yourself and exacerbating that it was your fault. What I'd have done instead is try to flip it on her, like she's over-reacting. Something like "Here I was thinking you were fun/could take a joke (either or), guess I was wrong ;)"
You are effectively then saying she isn't very fun/can't take a joke, but the wink at the end makes it so it doesn't come off as you throwing a hissy fit.
Author:  Sonicvega [ Fri Mar 23, 2012 12:39 pm ]
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Ill be watching for updates . Best thing you can do is pretend like it never happened and continue to do what your doing . And remember when throwing a neg use a neg calibrator. Meaning if you neg follow up with a quick compliment or vice versa. Thats why its hard to neg on a text.
Author:  mhj [ Fri Mar 23, 2012 3:26 pm ]
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Any idea how to get another date?
Author:  mhj [ Sat Mar 24, 2012 3:03 am ]
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So I ran into her in school but was running late for class so didn't get a chance to talk. But I texted her later saying we should hangout soon but never heard back. I thought I had some solid game with her but who knows. I would really like to know what happened but I guess we'll never know.
Author:  Rockets88 [ Sat Mar 24, 2012 7:44 pm ]
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My advice. Dont text her again/ call her again. If u run into her again build up some comfort and value and try an instant date. If she turns that down then wait a very, and i mean very long time then hit her up again.
Author:  NikAFC [ Sat Mar 24, 2012 8:26 pm ]
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She qualified you from the moment go " I'm not looking for anything".
You should of just said "That's ok with me but I want you to know that girls who aren't looking for anything don't have lunch with me"
Author:  mhj [ Sat Mar 24, 2012 10:45 pm ]
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I don't really plan on pursing anything with this chick, plenty of other girls around for me to wasting the little time I do have. Just left wondering what the hell happened so I could improve my game. Oh well, I guess we'll never know.
Author:  NikAFC [ Thu Nov 01, 2012 4:08 pm ]
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I just told u donkey ...
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