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Author:  Musterion [ Fri Mar 16, 2012 9:23 am ]
Post subject:  In a bit of a jam

Bit of background, met this girl in the street 2 weeks ago tomorrow, 2-3minutes then got her number, she's a genuinely busy girl (final year of law degree with exams coming up) thus I've been having a little trouble keeping in regular contact (I've done a couple of freeze-outs already). So yesterday after a week long freeze out I text her:
Me - haha I just made you look at your phone for no reason :p 
she's texts back almost instantly
Her - cheers gayness :) how are you doing? (evidently not as busy as SOME of us) :p x
Me - You're welcome homo :) ahem I'm soooo busy, got some CRAZY things happening, I'd tell you what but I don't think you could handle it, being a librarian after all ;-) x
Librarian bit is an in joke coz she's always studying. With this text I was trying to bait her into "challenging me" saying she can handle or something like that, instead though.
Her - Ooooo sounds like some good shizzle! Share the neeeeeeews! Soundchecking funtimes? I may not be able to handle it...what with you being so evidently more 'cool and crazy' than me! x

The last message came like 9 hours later or so, and basically every instinct in me is saying that the second half of her message is a clever shit-test and I'm not sure how to deal with it. First though was to just keep it going and say something like "yeah you know I'm much cooler than you" or whatever but I've done this a couple of times now and it's beginning to wear a little thin in m opinion. Basically in this text convo (ultimately) I wanna try to build up attraction and wrestle back some more 'control' as it were, then call her tomorrow to try and go for a drink on st patricks day. I feel I have enough comfort built already but need to spike her attraction a bit over the next day to get her to hang out.

Thoughts appreciated guys.

Author:  kingmack07 [ Fri Mar 16, 2012 2:39 pm ]
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Yea she I interested man. Get off the texting game and get her in person! Setup something for drinks as you mentioned. She will make the time for you.

Author:  Musterion [ Fri Mar 16, 2012 4:54 pm ]
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Getting her in person is precisely what I'm trying to do, the problem is as I said that she is like 2 weeks away from her final exams for a law degree, hence she's cramming all her time into studying (when I met her she was on her way to the library). I knew when we exchanged numbers she didn't have a lot of free time (have said these exact words to her) so I know logistically it's gonna be really difficult, tomorrow is st. patricks day though and I'm betting if there is one day she's gonna make time to go for a drink, it'll be then.
I think in my response to this message now I'm gonna go with something like "Ok you got me I spent all day watching my favourite disney films :D" I've never met a girl that didn't absolutely LOVE disney so it's always a good conversational thread to go into.
Anyway time to get ready for a night on the pull tonight :twisted:

Author:  kingmack07 [ Fri Mar 16, 2012 6:23 pm ]
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Just ignore the last message and cage the topic to you tellin her to meet you for st pattys day.

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